Soft Cock Week Podcast

What can we do when that voice in the head just won't let us enjoy or shut the F*ck up? When the mind cockblocks our pleasure even when all could be delight? Hypnosis and self-hypnosis are powerful tools you can use to reset your sexual expectations and enjoyment. Cultivate self-acceptance AND soft cock sensuality by changing negative self-talk to powerfully positive suggestions. Erica Leroye talks with Dr. Amy Marsh, sexologist and founder of the Intimate Hypnosis Training Center. After the engaging conversation between these two embodiment sexologists, Dr.Amy has provided a full presentation and a guided hypnosis you can use at home. If you would like the pdf of the hypnosis script to use with yourself or a partner it is available on her Cockversation page at www.softcockweek.com For More Information and to Connect With Dr.Amy Marsh amymarshsexologist.com Amy’s Books: Entrancing: Hypnotizing Your Way to More Pleasure, Romance, and Sex! Sexological Hypnosis: Overview, History, & Techniques amymarshsexologist.com For More Information and to Connect With Erica Leroye https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com For More Information and to Connect With Soft Cock Appreciation Week https://www.softcockweek.com/ We have MERCH! Check out our storewww.softcockweek.com/store Takeaways Self-love and acceptance are crucial for sexual enjoyment. Hypnosis can help bypass negative self-talk. Fluctuations in erections are normal and should be embraced. Positive self-talk can enhance sexual confidence. The nervous system plays a key role in arousal. Techniques like erotic hypnosis can enhance pleasure. Self-hypnosis is a valuable tool for body acceptance. Communication with partners about desires is essential. Pleasure can be experienced in many forms, not just penetration. Creating a safe space for intimacy is vital. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Sofcock Appreciation Week 04:19 Dr. Amy's Journey and Expertise 07:25 Understanding Hypnosis in Sexuality 10:54 The Science Behind Hypnosis 12:52 The Role of Self-Suggestion 16:33 Addressing Negative Self-Talk 21:07 Practical Tools for In-the-Moment Challenges 25:35 Using Self-Affirmations Effectively 29:40 Understanding Sexual Response and Neural Pathways 34:16 Exploring the Impact of Cultural Norms on Male Sexuality 36:42 Hypnosis Techniques for Sexual Empowerment 42:18 The Importance of Self-Hypnosis and Partner Support 45:50 The Fluidity of Sexual Experience 48:51 The Power of Words and Positive Reinforcement 54:39 Dr. Amy's Presentation and Demo Soft Cock Appreciation Week, hypnosis, self-love, sexuality, body acceptance, pleasure, nervous system, positive self-talk, erotic hypnosis, intimacy

Erica Leroye and Zach Budd, LMSW, consent educator and OG SCWeek participant explore sexuality, consent, and the impact of toxic masculinity, toxic femininity, and “genderless toxicity” on mental and physical health.This conversation touches on race and culture, power and powerlessness, and the impacts of societal expectations on men's health. By naming that which is often unsaid they move the conversation about “softness” from shame and isolation to sexual empowerment by:  Normalizing men talking about penises and penis health especially in minority communities. Looking at the barriers and discovering ways to circumvent them, and/or just knock them the fuck out. Addressing healthcare discrepancies, hypersexualization, and traumas that impact sexual well-being Discussing medication related erectile/ejaculation/arousal issues and expanding what sexual pleasure might look like for those on meds Vulnerability can enhance intimacy in relationships. Curiosity can alleviate anxiety in sexual situations and immense pleasure can be found in non-penetrative activities. For More Information and to Connect With Zach Budd X.  black_sexgeek IG zinvictuz For More Information and to Connect With Erica Leroye https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com For More Information and to Connect With Soft Cock Appreciation Week https://www.softcockweek.com/ We have MERCH! Check out our storewww.softcockweek.com/store and support Soft Cock Appreciation Week Takeaways The conversation encourages open discussions about sexual themes. Consent education is crucial in addressing sexual trauma. Toxic masculinity can lead to harmful perceptions of manhood. Toxic femininity affects boys' development in educational settings. Education systems often fail to support boys' natural development. Hypersexualization of black men creates unrealistic expectations. Representation in media is essential for diverse sexual narratives. Self-talk significantly impacts mental health and relationships. Toxicity in relationships can lead to physical health issues. Creating safe spaces for dialogue is vital for healing. Toxicity in one's mind can lead to performance anxiety. Healthy attachment involves being seen, heard, and accepted. Body acceptance is a journey that evolves over time. Vulnerability can enhance intimacy in sexual relationships. Communication about sexual health is crucial for connection. Exploring pleasure beyond penetration can be fulfilling. Prostate health is vital, especially for black men. Curiosity can counteract anxiety in sexual situations. Men can experience pleasure in various ways beyond traditional norms. It's important to challenge toxic masculinity in discussions about health. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Soft Cock Appreciation Week 02:39 Zach Budd's Background and Connection to Soft Cock Week 04:39 Understanding Consent and Sexuality Education 06:02 Toxic Masculinity and Its Impact on Men 12:20 Exploring Toxic Femininity and Gendered Toxicity 19:00 The Effects of Toxicity on Mental and Physical Health 26:29 The Role of Education in Shaping Masculinity 33:44 Hypersexualization and Racial Stereotypes 37:08 The Importance of Representation in Sexuality 40:40 The Impact of Anxiety and Jealousy on Sexual Health 43:00 Navigating Self-Care and Toxicity 48:07 Personal Journeys: Body Acceptance and Health 59:16 The Importance of Vulnerability in Relationships 01:11:34 Exploring Pleasure Beyond Penetration 01:15:29 Prostate Health and Breaking Taboos Soft Cock Appreciation Week, toxic masculinity, toxic femininity, consent, sexuality education, mental health, representation, LGBTQ, trauma, self-care, toxic masculinity, performance anxiety, body acceptance, vulnerability, sexual health, prostate health, growth mindset, healthy attachment, pleasure exploration, mental health

Have you been curious about bringing sex toys into your play but have thoughts like, “It means I’m ‘less than’ if we use a toy”, “I can’t feel my partners pleasure if we use a toy,” “I’m embarrassed that I like sex toys,”  “I tried toys and they didn’t do anything for me,” “If we use toys we’ll become less sensitive, get addicted to it, and it will create problems down the line”? Then this conversation is for you! Join Erica Leroye as she and Carl the Toy Guy, Owner of PTTreasures toy emporium, as they deep dive together into:   Common blocks people have around bringing toys into solo and partnered experiences and fun and practical suggestions for overcoming hesitancies and embracing and enjoying sex toys.   A toy “show and tell” with examples and brainstorming for creative uses for people who have a variety of erectile concerns including ideas for how to shop for them, pick them, use them and clean them. Addressing cultural and societal stigmas around men exploring their sexual desires and ways to brush that off and claim the joy that playing with toys and discovering new sensations can offer the whole self.  For More Information and to Connect With Carl www.pttreasures.com IG pt_treasures Carl has offered a discount on his site, for all us SC Appreciators. USE CODE SOFTCOCK for 15% off purchases on this site For a full list of all the toys mentioned in this episode go to our episode page https://www.softcockweek.com/2024-cockversations/9ebjpsryumtfu4ts4u8s8ebk6vcypl For More Information and to Connect With Erica Leroye https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com For More Information and to Connect With Soft Cock Appreciation Week https://www.softcockweek.com/ We have MERCH! Check out our storewww.softcockweek.com/store and support both Soft Cock Week and this year’s, once we make a profit, partner SELFED (getselfed.org) Takeaways Toys can enhance intimacy and pleasure in relationships. Many men face blocks due to societal norms and personal beliefs. Communication is key when introducing toys into a relationship. Toys can be used creatively beyond their intended purpose. Understanding toy materials and proper cleaning is essential. Lube plays a crucial role in the enjoyment of toys. Erectile dysfunction does not mean the end of pleasure. Foreplay with toys can deepen connection between partners. It's important to learn your own body to maximize pleasure. Toys can be a fun and exciting addition to sexual experiences. Sex toys can enhance both solo and partnered play. Communication is key to understanding and fulfilling each other's desires. Orgasm is not the only goal; pleasure is the main focus. Different toys serve various purposes and can be used creatively. Understanding the mechanics of orgasm can improve sexual experiences. The market for sex toys is growing and becoming more innovative. It's important to choose body-safe materials when selecting toys. Men are increasingly advocating for their own pleasure and exploring new experiences. Sexual health is linked to regular ejaculation, which can be supported by toys. Creating a comfortable environment for discussing sexual desires is essential. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Toy Guy and Sofcock Appreciation Week 01:53 Carl's Journey to Becoming the Toy Guy 03:22 Overcoming Blocks to Using Toys 07:07 Understanding Men's Concerns with Toys 10:04 The Importance of Communication in Using Toys 12:07 Connecting with Partners Through Toys 16:10 Exploring Different Uses for Toys 19:20 The Role of Foreplay with Toys 22:18 Understanding Toy Materials and Cleaning 28:32 Lube and Its Importance with Toys 33:21 Toys for Erectile Disappointment 37:40 Show and Tell: Exploring Different Toys 50:55 Exploring the World of Sex Toys 54:46 The Importance of Communication in Pleasure 01:01:00 Understanding Orgasm and Stimulation 01:06:53 Innovative Toys and Their Uses 01:12:56 Navigating Sexual Experiences and Expectations 01:20:43 The Future of Sex Toys and Market Trends sex toys, erectile dysfunction, pleasure, intimacy, communication, toy materials, lube, foreplay, sexual wellness, relationships, sex toys, pleasure, communication, orgasm, stimulation, intimacy, sexual health, innovation, relationships, education

With Prostate Cancer rates touching many families, the movement around support and education offers models for us to consider in thinking about erectile health specifically. In this conversation, Erica Leroye invites Billy Hatzichristos, support group facilitator at Man Cave Health to discuss the multifaceted challenges faced by men dealing with prostate cancer, particularly focusing on the impact on relationships, intimacy, and self-advocacy. This conversation gives insights into how Man Cave support groups work and also: Billy’s personal story with Prostate Cancer and his path to becoming a facilitator and guide for other men Balancing the focus of the “stats” during health recovery with the emotional components What men are talking about together in open and authentic ways when given the space to do so The important role of partners and peers in recovery How hemp based products, like Native Ceuticals, can support well-being and sexual function For More Information and to Connect With Billy Hatzichristos Mancavehealth.org https://longislandhemp.com/ For More Information and to Connect With Erica Leroye https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com For More Information and to Connect With Soft Cock Appreciation Week https://www.softcockweek.com/ We have MERCH! Check out our storewww.softcockweek.com/store and support both Soft Cock Week and this year’s, once we make a profit, partner SELFED (getselfed.org) Other References Made in this Episode: https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/the-endocannabinoid-system-essential-and-mysterious-202108112569 Prostate Cancer Research Institute https://pcri.org/ Takeaways Soft Cock Appreciation Week encourages open conversations about men's health. Support groups provide a safe space for men to share their experiences. Prostate cancer can affect men at a younger age than commonly thought. Men often struggle to find support during their health journeys. Communication with partners is crucial for navigating sexual health issues. Body acceptance is an important aspect of recovery after prostate cancer. Cannabis and hemp products can aid in managing health issues. Men need to be proactive in their health care and screenings. The endocannabinoid system plays a role in regulating health and wellness. It's essential to educate men about their health options and resources. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Softcock Appreciation Week 03:43 The Importance of Support Groups for Men 08:24 Billy's Personal Journey with Prostate Cancer 12:50 Understanding Prostate Cancer Awareness 17:39 Breaking Barriers to Support 22:27 Navigating Treatment Options 30:10 Sexual Function and Intimacy Post-Cancer 32:52 Navigating Relationships During Health Challenges 34:27 Understanding the Impact of Medical Trauma 36:29 Rebuilding Intimacy Post-Surgery 39:58 Acceptance and Body Image After Prostate Cancer 46:21 Transitioning to a New Career in Health 52:51 The Role of Hemp in Health and Wellness prostate cancer, men's health, support groups, sexual health, body acceptance, cannabis, hemp products, erectile dysfunction, intimacy, health awareness

Continuing on the theme of “Why is talking openly and honestly about changes in erectile function still so taboo among men?” Erica Leroye speaks with Percy Hawkes, LMFT, Surrogate Partner, and founder of the Portland Queer Healers Collective, about his years facilitating men’s groups for both hetero and queer men and the wisdom and lessons we can apply as partners, providers and peers. With compassion and curiosity they discuss: Embracing Softness and Connection in male relationships Exploring societal and cultural barriers to open communication about health and strategies to encourage vulnerability and authenticity with peers partners and providers Body Acceptance and Aging The value of men's groups in an era of growing isolation and loneliness and the power of sharing stories for mental and physical well-being Resource Mentioned in this Conversation: The Mankind Project https://mankindproject.org/ For More Information and to Connect With Percy Hawkes https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/percy-hawkes-portland-or/390834 For More Information and to Connect With Erica Leroye https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com For More Information and to Connect With Soft Cock Appreciation Week https://www.softcockweek.com/ We have MERCH! Check out our store www.softcockweek.com/store Takeaways Men often struggle to communicate about sexual health and function. Group dynamics can facilitate open discussions among men. Body acceptance is crucial as men age and face changes. Vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness. Softness can be a source of connection and intimacy. Men desire to feel seen, heard, and loved. The mind-body connection plays a significant role in sexual health. Normalizing conversations about erectile function can reduce stigma. Intergenerational conversations can provide valuable insights for younger men. Community support is essential for men's mental and emotional well-being. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Soft Cock Appreciation Week 05:35 Challenges in Male Communication 13:02 The Vulnerability of Male Sexual Health 22:14 Body Acceptance and Aging in Men 40:23 Intergenerational Conversations and Male Support 48:34 Finding Community and Support Groups 57:23 Embracing Softness and Connection 01:09:09 Closing Thoughts and Resources soft cock, male communication, body acceptance, vulnerability, sexual health, men's groups, aging, intimacy, mental health, community support

Does it ever feel like you are trying to fit the proverbial square peg into the round hole of sexuality? Are you “going along” with your partner's wishes and desires even when you aren’t feeling arousal? Has sex always been something that just doesn’t light you up? Do you enjoy solo sex but partnered sex isn't a turn-on? Many people are unaware of the the asexuality spectrum and find relief and Aha! with new information on how this may look in relationships. Erica Leroye sits at the feet of Aubri Lancaster, Certified ASSECT Sexuality Educator and founder of Acesexeducation. Aubri has exceptional expertise teaching laypeople and professionals about ACE awareness in ways that are compassionate and transformational. Together they discuss: What do we mean by asexuality and how does it differ from low libido? What would be some common signs/signals that might help a person or a partner get to the “aha! This might be me/you/us!”? What has changed culturally/societally so that this is now more understood as a truth and not something that has to be “overcome”? What support is out there for people to learn and discover more? Beyond “Sex”-Expanding what intimacy and connection can look like and feel like for ACE people and partners They also share some juicy, on the spot erotica imaginations for people who aren't seeing themselves represented in traditional erotica to imagine into. For More Information and to Connect With Aubri Lancasterhttps://aubrilancaster.wixsite.com/website-3IG @acesexeducation For More Information and to Connect With Erica Leroye www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.comIG @erica_leroye For More Information and to Connect With Soft Cock Appreciation Week www.softcockweek.com IG @softcockweek We have MERCH! Check out our store www.softcockweek.com/store Resources Mentioned by Aubri: Sharonda j Brown- Refusing Compulsory Sexuality Emily Nagoski Cody Daigle-Orians @acedadadvice- I am Ace Advice, Ace-Aro Relationship Guide AI Takeaways: Asexuality is a valid sexual orientation that challenges traditional norms. Communication is key in understanding and navigating asexuality in relationships. Desire discrepancy can lead to misunderstandings in couples. Solo sexuality is a legitimate expression of sexual identity. Embodied language in erotica can enhance sexual experiences. Non-sexual intimacy is equally important in relationships. Asexuality does not equate to a lack of desire for connection. Resources are available for those exploring their asexual identity. It's important to decenter sex in relationships and focus on other forms of intimacy. Understanding one's own needs and desires is crucial for healthy relationships. Chapters00:00 Introduction to Asexuality and Aromanticism 07:07 Understanding Asexuality: Definitions and Misconceptions 12:24 Desire Discrepancy in Relationships 18:44 Exploring Solo Sexuality vs. Partnered Sexuality 24:06 The Importance of Non-Sexual Intimacy 30:55 Redefining Pleasure Beyond Sexual Norm s36:35 Navigating Asexuality and Communication in Relationships 41:45 Resources for Understanding Asexuality 47:50 Conclusion: Embracing Asexuality and Intimacy asexuality, aromanticism, intimacy, sexual orientation, relationships, desire discrepancy, solo sexuality, communication, embodiment, soft cock appreciation

When other factors are ruled out, many men with erectile changes are told “it must be “low-T.” As the market for male hormone replacement therapies grows, how do we better understand the important role testosterone plays in sexual health and well-being over the lifespan? Erica Leroye brings her quest to get a better grasp on the nitty gritty of testosterone and hormone health to Functional Medical Doctor and Men’s Hormone Replacement Specialist Justin Smitherman ND,DC. Join these two as they discuss in easy to understand language: What Testosterone IS, what it does for the body and what part it plays in arousal sexuality, and stress management. Is there such a thing as "too much testosterone", "low T", and should we accept the "it’s just natural decline, live with it" approach to ED? Recognizing signs and signals that point towards hormonal causes of erectile shifts The importance of self-advocacy when engaging with traditional medical care, key questions to ask when considering testing and replacement therapies, and lifestyle changes that can assist in hormonal well-being. For More Information and to Connect With Dr. Smitherman https://doctorsmitherman.com/ For More Information and to Connect With Erica Leroye https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com For More Information and to Connect With Soft Cock Appreciation Week https://www.softcockweek.com/ We have MERCH! Check out our storewww.softcockweek.com/store and support both Soft Cock Week and this year’s, once we make a profit, partner SELFED (getselfed.org) Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Men's Health and Hormone Regulation 03:50 Understanding Testosterone and Its Importance 06:41 The Role of Testosterone in Aging 09:50 Identifying Low Testosterone Symptoms 12:39 The Connection Between Testosterone and Sexual Health 15:20 Exploring the Psychological Aspects of Low Libido 18:31 The Impact of Relationships on Testosterone Levels 21:17 Pregnenolone and Hormonal Balance 24:10 Conclusion and Key Takeaways 33:24 Understanding Individual Testosterone Levels 35:16 The Importance of Baseline Testing 39:53 Interpreting Testosterone Ranges 42:39 Diminishing Returns of Testosterone Levels 48:28 Exploring Testosterone Replacement Options 54:16 Navigating Telehealth and Consultations 58:31 Empowering Self-Advocacy in Healthcare 01:04:47 New Chapter men's health, testosterone, erectile dysfunction, aging, hormone therapy, sexual health, health advocacy, testosterone replacement therapy, low testosterone, soft cock week

Soft Cock Appreciation Week know that when maintaining an erection is a challenge, there may be a physiological root that unfortunately is not easily or commonly treated by traditional medicine.  “Imagine pumping up a bicycle tire that has a pinhole leak, no matter how you pump it, that tire just isn’t going to stay firm, so too is the way of Venous leak”. This is the wisdom of Nigel Shaw, the creative innovator and inventor of Xialla, an easy to wear, uniquely designed penis ring for men with Venous leak. Erica Leroye and Nigel delve into the world of Venous Leak and Xialla: What IS Venous leakage, understanding the frustrations that come with this particular challenge, how it's underserved in traditional medicine, and differentiating physical from the psychological roots when maintaining is the predominant concern.  Some unique signs and symptoms of VL and lifestyle changes that may help Innovating a new solution and how the Xialla ring works for venous leak as well as for other sexual enhancing play The Xialla community as a resource and tips for others who want to support men’s fears and vulnerability. For More Information and to Connect With Nigel Shaw Xialla.com For More Information and to Connect With Erica Leroye https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com For More Information and to Connect With Soft Cock Appreciation Week https://www.softcockweek.com/ We have MERCH! Check out our storewww.softcockweek.com/store and support both Soft Cock Week and this year’s, once we make a profit, partner SELFED (getselfed.org) Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Soft Cock Appreciation Week 03:25 Understanding Intimacy and Erection Dynamics 06:20 The Invention of the Xialla Device 09:13 Personal Journey and Health Challenges 11:54 Exploring the Market for Erectile Dysfunction Solutions 15:13 The Mechanics of Venous Leak 17:53 Demonstrating the Xialla Device 19:36 demo of Xialla ring 21:06 The Magical Benefits of the Xialla Device 24:04 Understanding Venous Leak in Depth 24:22 New Chapter 26:27 The Psychological Aspects of Erection 27:53 Conclusion and Final Thoughts 34:45 Navigating Interruptions in Intimacy 35:51 The Impact of Masculinity on Mental Health 37:48 Understanding Erection Challenges 39:22 The Role of Xialla in Sexual Health 42:16 Integrating Xialla with Other Treatments 47:41 2nd demo 49:25 Creating Safe Spaces for Men to Share 52:45 The Emotional Side of Erectile Dysfunction 56:38 Exploring Alternatives to Traditional Intimacy 58:01 The Limitations of Medical Solutions 01:01:44 Benefits of Xialla Beyond E Soft Cock Appreciation Week, erectile dysfunction, venous leak, intimacy, Nigel Shaw, Xialla device, sexual health, men's health, psychological effects, innovation

Soft Cock Appreciation Week Know that hands lovingly moving over the body can be a powerful source of erotic pleasure and can be a gift of deep relaxation, but not everyone feels at ease giving and receiving erotic/sensual massage. In this conversation Erica Leroye and Lee Jagger, founder of Rock the Bedroom a teaching program for women to gain confidence and competency bringing erotic massage and tender care to their partners. Together they share the combined wisdom from their years as erotic bodyworkers for men. Together they explore: The transformative power of Intentional Touch and the richness of pleasure that exists beyond penetration. The gift of creating sensual erotic opportunities where the genitals are relieved from all expectation of performing and instead are nourished and nurtured with sublime care. The challenges facing men who long for and desire touch and ways that partners can initiate the invitations to let go and receive. For More Information, the free training and to Connect With Lee Jagger www.rockthebedroom.com you tube @rockthebedroom  For More Information and to Connect With Erica Leroye https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com For More Information and to Connect With Soft Cock Appreciation Week https://www.softcockweek.com/ We have MERCH! Check out our storewww.softcockweek.com/store and support both Soft Cock Week and this year’s, once we make a profit, partner SELFED (getselfed.org) 00:00 Introduction to Soft Cock Appreciation Week 04:04 Exploring Rock the Bedroom Programs 06:47 Understanding Women's Perspectives on Intimacy 09:45 The Importance of Communication in Sexual Relationships 12:34 The Power of Touch and Sensation 15:38 Reframing Foreplay and Erection Dynamics 18:43 The Role of Vulnerability in Male Sexuality 21:28 Understanding Male Orgasm and Erection Mechanisms 24:34 Creating Safe Spaces for Male Vulnerability 27:20 The Impact of Touch on Male Sexual Experience 30:20 The Importance of Self-Care in Sexual Relationships 33:13 The Art of Receiving and Giving in Intimacy 36:06 The Role of Oxytocin in Sexual Connection 39:01 Visualizing Intimacy: The Trampoline Analogy 41:50 The Journey of Learning to Touch and Connect 44:54 Conclusion and Final Thoughts 52:41 The Power of Intentional Touch 59:17 Understanding the Refractory Period 01:06:07 The Healing Nature of Erotic Touch 01:11:26 Exploring the Connection Between Body and Mind 01:17:19 The Importance of Communication in Intimacy 01:24:05 Embracing Creativity in Sexual Exploration 01:29:26 Navigating Touch Sensitivity and Neurodivergence 01:33:50 Redefining Pleasure Beyond Penetration Soft Cock Appreciation Week, intimacy, sexual health, hand techniques, male vulnerability, pleasure, communication, erotic massage, sexual education, relationships, intimacy, touch, connection, erotic energy, intentional touch, dopamine, refractory period, healing, empowerment, vulnerability

Soft Cock Appreciation Week 2024 recognizes that one of the challenges many men face when erectile function shifts is that the familiar “go-tos” of HOW the penis responds to stimuli also changes. This can bring frustration, anxiety and confusion or it can open new doors to discovering a deeper connection to what turns you on. In this lively conversation Jessie Fresh, Erotic Blueprint Coach and Intimacy Educator, shares with Erica Leroye the concept of The Erotic Blueprints, a template of 5 archetypal turn on styles, that are a helpful roadmap to expanding a sense of “who am I and what am I like” with a special focus on connection and arousal styles. Sharing examples and insights from their collective years of working with men and couples they explore: The 5 Erotic Blueprints- The Energetic, The Sensual, The Sexual, The Kinky, and The Shapeshifter, and keys for figuring out what your style may be and how to thrive once you know. Practical Tips for partners to entice and engage with each Blueprint style. How to ease into playfulness, curiosity, and consensual exploration during erotic connection. For More Information and To Connect With Jessie Fresh: www.jessiefresh.com For More Information and to Connect With Erica Leroye www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com For More Information and to Connect With Soft Cock Appreciation Week https://www.softcockweek.com/ We have MERCH! Check out our storewww.softcockweek.com/store and support both Soft Cock Week and this year’s, once we make a profit, partner SELFED (getselfed.org) 00:00 Introduction to Soft Cock Appreciation Week 03:42 Exploring Erotic Blueprints 07:29 Understanding Arousal and Pleasure 19:25 The Five Erotic Blueprints 31:51 Sensual Blueprint and Its Needs 36:50 The Power of Sensuality in Intimacy 39:42 Pampering and Self-Care for Better Connection 42:16 Exploring Kinky Desires and Taboo 45:33 Creativity in Kink: Beyond the Norms 58:15 Understanding the Shapeshifter Blueprint 01:05:15 Embracing Playfulness in Sexuality 01:10:47 New Chapter Soft Cock Appreciation Week, Erotic Blueprints, Sexuality, Pleasure, Intimacy, Turn On, Kinky, Sensual, Energetic, Shapeshifter

Soft Cock Appreciation Week 2024 is asking you, Are you Ready to break the Sound Barrier? Silent sex is often a habit of circumstance and, for many, vocalizing can feel “unnatural”. Cardiovascular research has shown that the HUM in particular helps the physical functioning of the body by increasing Nitric Oxide, a critical component of erectile health. Like a vibrator, a blindfold, or a cockring, bringing sound into sexual play and exploration also enhances sensory arousal and can be a wonderful addition to have in your pleasure chest. In this conversation Erica Leroye and Jill Carnay, Somatic Vocal Coach and founder of The Vocal Universe, discuss the acoustic nature of the body, humming techniques for better erectile function, and more ways for integrating sound into intimate practices for both those who are uncomfortable making noises and those who love it. Together they explore: The profound connection between sound, breath, and sexuality The essentials of the Hum- what it is, how to do it in practice, and how to apply it during intimacy The relationships between the throat/mouth and pelvis/genitals to maximize what you do above to impact what happens down below Between Silence and “Dirty Talk”-Tapping into the eroticism of vowels as a playful way to connect the body/mind both solo and with partners More Info: To connect with Jill Carnay: www.thevocaluniverse.com  @thevocaluniverse  For More Information and to Connect With Erica Leroye https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com For More Information and to Connect With Soft Cock Appreciation Week https://www.softcockweek.com/ We have MERCH! Check out our storewww.softcockweek.com/store and support both Soft Cock Week and this year’s, once we make a profit, partner SELFED (getselfed.org) To Connect with Soft Cock Week: www.softcockweek.com 00:00 Introduction to Soft Cock Appreciation Week 01:30 Exploring Sound and Sexual Health 04:17 The Role of Sound in Sexual Intimacy 05:58 Understanding the Body as an Acoustic Instrument 13:49 The Connection Between Nitric Oxide and Sexual Health 16:42 The Power of Humming in Intimacy 19:05 Connecting Sound to Sensation 22:31 Using Sound as a Tool for Pleasure 28:41 Techniques for Effective Humming 39:20 Integrating Sound into Daily Life 41:34 The Power of Sound and Smiling 43:53 Connecting Breath and Sound in Sexuality 48:05 Mind-Body Connection in Sexual Experiences 51:58 Exploring the Sound Toolbox for Pleasure 57:58 Vowel Sounds and Their Impact on Sexuality 01:04:08 Integrating Sound into Sexual Practices 01:10:02 Breath and Sound During Orgasm 01:13:53 Connecting with Jill Carnay Soft Cock Appreciation Week, sexual health, sound therapy, intimacy, pleasure, nitric oxide, humming, vocal embodiment, somatic practices, erotic wellness, sound, sexuality, breath, pleasure, connection, mindfulness, vocalization, intimacy, orgasm, self-exploration

Soft Cock Appreciation Week 2024 asks, “Why is talking openly and honestly about changes in erectile function still so taboo among men?”  This question has been at the forefront of Erica Leroye’s quest to demystify the erectile epidemic and treat men’s sexual health as openly as any other health matter. In this conversation Erica speaks with Courtney Brame, founder of both Something Positive for Positive People- a vital resource for STI stigma re-education, and Selfed a mental and emotional health nonprofit for Black men, as well as  a yoga instructor and yoga therapist in training. Courtney shares ideas from his years of his personal and professional experience helping people learn how to accept their bodies as they are and feel more free in communicating openly and authentically with partners. Join them as they explore: How it often takes a crisis to begin the shift from societal expectations of “what it means to be a man” to the personal explorations that create one’s own truth. Redirecting thoughts of “I am alone in this and no one will ever want me again” to accepting what is in a way that encourages self-care and discoveries of new possibilities. Transforming “disclosure” of erectile concerns to partners into open dialogue and discussion .  Speaking from the Body- Learning your body’s cues and messages as a path for communicating desires and needs Practical Tips for Stress Management, Open Communication, and Lifestyle Changes For More Information About Courtney Brame and to Support His Work: https://getselfed.org https://spfpp.org  @SelfedWithCourtneyBrame  For More Information About Erica Leroye and Her Work https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com For More Information About Soft Cock Appreciation Week www.softcockweek.com We have MERCH! Check out our storewww.softcockweek.com/store and support both Soft Cock Week and this year’s, once we make a profit, partner SELFED (getselfed.org) Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Self-Cock Appreciation Week 02:59 Courtney Brame's Journey and Initiatives 05:49 The Importance of Emotional Wellness for Men 09:07 Navigating Men's Sexual Health and Communication 11:56 Understanding the Mind-Body Connection 14:46 Breaking Down Stigmas Around Erectile Function 18:02 The Role of Vulnerability in Relationships 20:53 Self-Cock: A New Approach to Men's Wellness 23:50 Tools for Managing Stress and Emotional Health 27:08 The Future of Self and Community Engagement

During the closing panel of Soft Cock Week 2023 the conversation shifted to “where is the joyful representation of soft cock in erotica that isn’t humiliation focused?” This inspired previous participant Mish Middelmann, prostate cancer survivor, advocate and founder of Recoveringman.net to go on a quest to find what lives in the wilds of the internet for those who want Soft Cock in their erotic fantasies. His North Star is to celebrate how soft cocks invite men and their partners from one-dimensional results-oriented sex into full body integrated connection with love for self, and partner, and beyond. Erica Leroye and Mish are likeminded on this mission and in this conversation Mish shares what he has discovered. They also talk about their personal experiences tapping into the creative process as a way to deepen the mind/body connection to their juicy erotic wholeness and share tips and ideas for turning on self and others through creative expression. Join US for the Soft Cock Erotica Open Mic Nov 16th 5 pm pst! Free online event, go to softcockweek.com for ticket links For more information or to contact Mish Middelmann recoveringman.net mish@recoveringman.net For More Information and to Connect With Erica Leroye https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com For More Information and to Connect With Soft Cock Appreciation Week https://www.softcockweek.com/ We have MERCH! Check out our storewww.softcockweek.com/store and support both Soft Cock Week and this year’s, once we make a profit, partner SELFED (getselfed.org) Softcock Appreciation Week, male sexuality, body acceptance, prostate cancer, erectile dysfunction, vulnerability, imagination, intimacy, sexual pleasure, erotic writing, soft cock, erotica, sexual imagination, creative expression, role fluidity, healing, storytelling, intimacy, vulnerability, sexuality Chapters 00:00 Celebrating Softcock Appreciation Week 02:50 Exploring Male Sexuality and Body Acceptance 06:11 Mish's Journey with Prostate Cancer 11:41 The Quest for Softcock Erotica 17:22 Body Acceptance and Vulnerability 23:01 Imagination in Sexuality 30:00 Embracing Complexity in Male Sexuality 36:04 Savoring the Experience of Intimacy 42:51 Exploring Soft Cock Erotica 48:04 The Art of Writing Erotica 55:35 Sharing and Stimulating Erotic Imagination 01:01:35 The Healing Power of Creative Expression 01:10:11 Role Fluidity in Sexuality 01:15:58 Creating a Treasure Trove of Stories For a complete transcript please email scweek@protonmail.com

Soft Cock Appreciation Week knows that pornography is the number one way people get their sex education and with that comes a lot of expectations and pressure to match what they see. But often the soft penis is not highlighted in adult visual media, leading the mind to believe that it is unwelcome or unappreciated in play and intimacy. In this dynamic conversation, Erica Leroye speaks with Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire, founders of Royal Fetish Films XXX. Jasmine and King are life partners, performers, activists, educators, entrepreneurs and all around baddies with heart ready to take you behind the scenes and celebrate hot, sexy, sultry, softness. This conversation is rich and touches on: A typical day in the life of a penis on a porn set- moving through the physical ups and downs of arousal and expectations WHY Hardness is what we see and how Royal Fetish Films is changing that expectation Communication skills you can take from adult performers to feel more comfortable talking about desires, needs and boundaries The importance of  “setting the stage” so that presence and flow state can be achieved The link between athletic performance and sexual performance and how preparation shifts performance anxiety to arousal Using what you see for ideas and inspirations while also better understanding that pornography is Intentional Entertainment For More Information about Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire: jetsettingjasmine.com For More Information and to Connect With Erica Leroye https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com For More Information and to Connect With Soft Cock Appreciation Week https://www.softcockweek.com/ We have MERCH! Check out our storewww.softcockweek.com/store and support both Soft Cock Week and this year’s, once we make a profit, partner SELFED (getselfed.org) Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Soft Cock Appreciation Week 02:49 Exploring Sexuality and Education 05:58 The Reality of Porn Sets 12:12 Navigating Erection Anxiety 17:59 The Importance of Breaks in Sexual Activity 23:54 Communication and Consent in Adult Entertainment 29:57 The Role of Authenticity in Performance 35:53 The Intersection of Pleasure and Education 50:51 The Reality of Performance and Preparation 54:48 Training for Sexual Performance 56:18 The Importance of Setting and Atmosphere 01:00:37 Connecting Through Sexual Energy 01:03:38 Exploring Soft Cock Experiences 01:12:02 The Role of Communication in Intimacy 01:20:53 Embracing Full Bodied Sexuality 01:28:32 Experimentation and Self-Discovery in Sexuality

Watch the replay of the 2023 Soft Cock-Tail Mixer, the final event of the 2023 Soft Cock Week, recorded on Saturday, Nov 11, 2023. This was a live event with the SCW founder, Michelle Renee, and some of the contributors from the week, including Phoenix Mandel, John Ellsworth, Erica Leroy, Mish Middelmann, Lee Jagger, Amy Weissfeld, and Peace Buffalo. There was a live audience that could comment and post questions in the chat. Learn more about the week's events at https://SoftCockWeek.com

In this episode, Michelle Renee talks with Dr Joe Kort, a sex therapist based in Detroit, Michigan, about shame in sex. They also talk about expanding our definitions of sex, the term "side", and erotic orientation. Psychotherapist Joe Kort, PhD, LMSW, is the clinical director and founder of The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health in Royal Oak, Michigan. He is a board-certified clinical sexologist, author of four books, lecturer and facilitator of therapeutic workshops, and the host of Smart Sex Smart Love podcast. You can learn more at JoeKort.com and find him on social media at @drjoekort. On tiktok at https://www.tiktok.com/@drjoekort The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SoftCockWeek.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes. Notes from this show: Rekindling Desire with Barry McCarthy on Joe's podcast Smart Sex Smart Love Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski (learn about responsive desire) Also a great Ted Talk with her about sustaining sexual connection The Great Sex Rescue RecoveringMan.net Brian Gibney Lee Phillips' Sex and Chronic Illness podcast episode with Michelle Renee Guys We Fucked episode with Michelle Renee Ruby Ryder and PeggingParadise.com Movemeber The Intimacy Lab Podcast My favorite tshirts: Side Tshirt Butthole Whisperer Tshirt Sexual Intellectual Tshirt Whores are Healers Tshirt p46r1LxG5dyTWb3LuVin

In this episode, Michelle Renee talks with Adelina Adler, sex coach and sexuality educator, about the definition of sex and how reframing that definition can open up a world of sex possibilities! Adelina Adler is a sex coach and sex educator based in Wilmington, NC. You can find Adelina on instagram at @askaddyadler. She is the host of Sexplorations! with Adelina Adler on Spotify, ⁠The Naked Booth on Youtube⁠, and the host of an online event called Sex Talk Saturdays. The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SoftCockWeek.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes. Notes from this show: Sex Geekdom Sex Geek Some Camp Arousal non-concordance OMG Yes This is Life with Lisa Ling on CNN episode on Surrogate Partner Therapy with Mirror Exercise can be seen on the front page (scroll down) on HumanConnectionCoach.com JoJo Bear Porn Yoga Erica Leroy Episode on Soft Cock Week Podcast Mish Middelmann Episode on Soft Cock Week Podcast Joan Price and Jessica Drake's Guide to Wicked Sex The Intimacy Lab Podcast Come As You Are

In this episode, Michelle Renee talks with Erica Leroye, the founder of Creative Body Release, which is a multidisciplinary method, helping adult experiential learners become empowered advocates for their sexual health and their overall well-being. In this episode, we talk about the mechanics of the cock and how masturbation coaching can be a helpful tool for cock owners. Erica also shares her personal connection to Soft Cock Week. To contact Erica, email erica@creativebodyrelease.com. The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at ⁠⁠⁠⁠meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠⁠⁠. For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠SoftCockWeek.com⁠⁠⁠⁠, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes. Notes from this show: ⁠Momentum Condoms and Lube

In this episode, Michelle Renee joins Mish Middelmann of RecoveringMan.net, a website focused on rediscovering life and manhood after prostate cancer, including contributor blogs and an online support community. Mish Middelmann was diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2019 at the age of 61. Through his own journey, he saw a need for men to share their stories in an effort to get the support that the medical world was not able to provide which is now RecoveringMan.net. The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at ⁠⁠meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠. For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to ⁠⁠SoftCockWeek.com⁠⁠, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes. Notes from this show: Mish's interview with Cam Fraser Ruby Ryder Dr Jo Milios - "A watched cock never comes" Brene Brown TED Talk on Vulnerability Literotica The Intimacy Lab Episode 1 about Michelle's journey with orgasm

Join Michelle Renee as she talks with her colleague, Kyle Hoffman, about his personal connection to Soft Cock Week. Kyle helps people create social lives full of deep, fulfilling connections.  He offers hands-on intimacy coaching, touch and cuddle therapy, and life coaching.  He serves people of all genders, shapes, and orientations.  He also offers group workshops on cuddling and emotional and physical intimacy.  Some are a safe clothing optional space, and some are for only men, only women, or for all genders.Kyle works with people remotely and in person.  He’s based in Philadelphia and travels to clients.  Contact him and sign up to receive workshop invites at www.cuddlingandcoaching.com The host, Michelle Renee, is a surrogate partner, intimacy guide, and professional cuddler located in San Diego, CA. You can learn more at ⁠⁠meetmichellerenee.com⁠⁠. For more information about Soft Cock Week, go to ⁠⁠SoftCockWeek.com⁠⁠, which includes resources, events, and even soft cock love notes. Notes from this show: Demisexuality is a sexual orientation in which a person feels sexually attracted to someone only after they've developed a close emotional bond with them. Forming a bond doesn’t guarantee a person will feel a sexual attraction, but the bond is needed before sexual activity is even possible. Per Cleveland Clinic Come as You Are⁠ by Emily Nagoski 3-Minute Game Demo Barry McCarthy on Smart Sex, Smart Love with Joe Kort Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin and Robyn Dalzen CuddleParty.org MEN’S CUDDLING GROUP: HOW IT WORKS IN REDEFINING MASCULINITY Some of Michelle's Favorite resources for sex ed: Scarleteen Come As You Are (linked above) Girl Sex 101 Sex for One Netflix's The Principles of Pleasure