Erica Leroye and Zach Budd, LMSW, consent educator and OG SCWeek participant explore sexuality, consent, and the impact of toxic masculinity, toxic femininity, and “genderless toxicity” on mental and physical health.This conversation touches on race and culture, power and powerlessness, and the impacts of societal expectations on men's health. By naming that which is often unsaid they move the conversation about “softness” from shame and isolation to sexual empowerment by:

•  Normalizing men talking about penises and penis health especially in minority communities. Looking at the barriers and discovering ways to circumvent them, and/or just knock them the fuck out.


• Addressing healthcare discrepancies, hypersexualization, and traumas that impact sexual well-being


• Discussing medication related erectile/ejaculation/arousal issues and expanding what sexual pleasure might look like for those on meds


• Vulnerability can enhance intimacy in relationships. Curiosity can alleviate anxiety in sexual situations and immense pleasure can be found in non-penetrative activities.









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Takeaways










The conversation encourages open discussions about sexual themes.




Consent education is crucial in addressing sexual trauma.




Toxic masculinity can lead to harmful perceptions of manhood.




Toxic femininity affects boys' development in educational settings.




Education systems often fail to support boys' natural development.




Hypersexualization of black men creates unrealistic expectations.




Representation in media is essential for diverse sexual narratives.




Self-talk significantly impacts mental health and relationships.




Toxicity in relationships can lead to physical health issues.




Creating safe spaces for dialogue is vital for healing. Toxicity in one's mind can lead to performance anxiety.




Healthy attachment involves being seen, heard, and accepted.




Body acceptance is a journey that evolves over time.




Vulnerability can enhance intimacy in sexual relationships.




Communication about sexual health is crucial for connection.




Exploring pleasure beyond penetration can be fulfilling.




Prostate health is vital, especially for black men.




Curiosity can counteract anxiety in sexual situations.




Men can experience pleasure in various ways beyond traditional norms.




It's important to challenge toxic masculinity in discussions about health.










Chapters










00:00 Introduction to Soft Cock Appreciation Week




02:39 Zach Budd's Background and Connection to Soft Cock Week




04:39 Understanding Consent and Sexuality Education




06:02 Toxic Masculinity and Its Impact on Men




12:20 Exploring Toxic Femininity and Gendered Toxicity




19:00 The Effects of Toxicity on Mental and Physical Health




26:29 The Role of Education in Shaping Masculinity




33:44 Hypersexualization and Racial Stereotypes




37:08 The Importance of Representation in Sexuality




40:40 The Impact of Anxiety and Jealousy on Sexual Health




43:00 Navigating Self-Care and Toxicity




48:07 Personal Journeys: Body Acceptance and Health




59:16 The Importance of Vulnerability in Relationships




01:11:34 Exploring Pleasure Beyond Penetration




01:15:29 Prostate Health and Breaking Taboos










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