DiscoverThe Transformation Department with Hilary Griffin034: Why Most People Avoid Hard Conversations (And How to Start Holding Them Well)
034: Why Most People Avoid Hard Conversations (And How to Start Holding Them Well)

034: Why Most People Avoid Hard Conversations (And How to Start Holding Them Well)

Update: 2025-03-29
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In this conversation, Hilary Griffin discusses the importance of having hard conversations in both personal and professional settings. She emphasizes that while these conversations may never become easy, learning to navigate them effectively can lead to better communication and stronger relationships. Hilary introduces the concept of 'Communication DNA' and shares practical strategies for approaching difficult dialogues, including checking one's inner tone and leading with authenticity. The episode concludes with encouragement to embrace these conversations as opportunities for growth and connection.

Takeaways

  • Most people avoid hard conversations due to discomfort.
  • Hard conversations don't get easier; we learn to hold them better.
  • People communicate through their personal filters.
  • Communication DNA helps improve understanding and connection.
  • Avoiding confrontation can negatively impact business and relationships.
  • Modeling effective communication is crucial for others to learn.
  • Check your inner tone before initiating a hard conversation.
  • Lead with your natural frequency, not fear.
  • The goal of a hard conversation is clarity, not agreement.
  • Journaling can help prepare for difficult discussions.
  • Navigating the Uncomfortable: Mastering Hard Conversations
  • Unlocking Communication: The Key to Difficult Dialogues
  • "So many people avoid it."
  • "Check your inner tone."
  • "Lead with your frequency and not fear."

titlesSound BitesChapters00:00 The Challenge of Hard Conversations04:56 Understanding Communication DNA07:33 Practical Strategies for Difficult Dialogues12:34 Embracing Authentic Communication


Keywords

hard conversations, communication skills, personal growth, business communication, emotional intelligence, conflict resolution, authenticity, leadership, interpersonal skills, communication strategies



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034: Why Most People Avoid Hard Conversations (And How to Start Holding Them Well)

034: Why Most People Avoid Hard Conversations (And How to Start Holding Them Well)

Hilary Griffin