People often ask me, “How do you actually become someone who truly loves themselves?”

For me, there are two keys:

First, go out and see as much of the world as you can—open yourself up to all kinds of possibilities.

Second, surround yourself with high-energy friends—immerse yourself in the kind of environment that lifts you up.

“Read thousands of books, travel thousands of miles”—that’s how I’ve nourished myself over the years, and it’s where my core confidence comes from.

I’ve always loved to travel. My independence is closely tied to those early trips my parents took me on. As I grew up, I started exploring new countries and regions on my own, walking alongside strangers and finding companionship in nature’s beauty.

For me, travel is a journey of encounter—a way to connect with the world, to discover countless ways of living. Every person and every experience I’ve met along the way has sparked new thoughts about life, taught me how to love myself, and reminded me to cherish the present moment.

I’ve collected these experiences and reflections in my book, “Adventure.”

Through my writing, I want to show you just how beautiful the process of “encountering” can be—and maybe, give you a glimpse of this wonderfully diverse world through my eyes.

00:42 What is self-love, really? Why loving yourself first changes everything

01:45 Two keys: adventure, and finding high-energy friends

03:46 “Read thousands of books, travel thousands of miles”: my secret to confidence

06:46  New journeys, new possibilities

11:55  How travel built my independence

12:49  My happiest days: Venice Film Festival

19:16  Reinventing myself after work

22:57  Once-in-a-lifetime encounters—why life is made of these beautiful meetings

25:47  How can anyone become stronger?

28:48  My inspiring friends: Uncle Kai, Esther Yu, Zhang Zihan

32:11 High energy, high EQ: don’t be a downer, avoid downers

38:43  Joyful journeys: embracing beauty, meeting the world

39:20  Seeing more than scenery: seeing people

42:09  Get out of your bubble, see the real world

42:47  Meet the world, meet others, meet yourself

BGM: “We Are Meant to Be”