In this episode Nicky is joined by Traver Boehm, author, two-time TEDx speaker, men’s coach, and the founder of the UNcivilized Men’s Movement. 

Traver shares his profound journey of 49 days in total darkness and the deep confrontation that arises when the identity, the ego, and the survival strategies begin to fall away.

No phone. No clock. Nothing to numb the discomfort.

He shares how the dark is not your enemy. It’s where true alignment begins.

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You’ll Learn: 

• Why boredom is the gateway to real transformation

• How discomfort reveals where you cling to safety

• How grief is a powerful teacher, revealing deep connections to love

• Compassion for oneself and others as a crucial part of the healing process

And lots more!

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Traver Boehm 

Author of Today I Rise, Man UNcivilized and 28 Days In Darkness. He’s a two-time TEDx speaker, men’s coach, and the founder of the UNcivilized Men’s Movement. He’s helped men all over the world to become UNcivilized as they wake up to the power of their hearts, the brilliance of their bodies, and the wisdom of their souls so they can blaze their own path by uniquely blending both the primal and the divine within them.

Most recently, Traver completed an extraordinary 49-day dark retreat and released his latest book chronicling his first such journey, 28 Days In Darkness.

He is dedicated to doing his part to help end the suffering in men, and the suffering caused by men, by guiding them through their own journey into an actualized version of masculinity.

For more information:

• Please visit his website: manuncivilized.com 

• And find him on Instagram: @traverboehm 

• And all podcast platforms: https://www.manuncivilized.com/blog/

• Find Travers book ‘28 Days in Darkness’ here : https://www.manuncivilized.com/28days 

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Ready to Go Deeper? 

Access Nicky’s FREE Discovering Freedom Masterclass: https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/the-discovering-freedom-masterclass/

In this powerful masterclass, you’ll:

• Identify the root of the repeating patterns that have been running your life

• Discover who you truly are beyond the fears and stories that have kept you stuck

• Learn the foundations of the BodyMind Maturation Method™ and how to use it in your own life

• Take your first step toward creating lasting freedom in your relationships, work, and self-expression

This is your invitation to go beyond surface-level change and start transforming at the root.

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Connect with Nicky: 

• Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/ 

• Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/ 

• Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation 

• Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender

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This is just the beginning. And from this space, everything is possible.