What comes after DM slides? Sexting! Or if you're for some of us there are like six more steps. Nevertheless our main topic this week is sexting and we're joined by the extremelet talented writer Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya!

We start with a game of "Sapho or Drew's 2014 Journal" before getting into all the ins and outs of sextual relationships. We're talking tenses, we're talking instigation, we're talking pictures — including the vast possibilities of the Live Photo. This week our direct communication is even hotter than usual!

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