#102: With Love, Not Force: Rewriting Success from the Inside Out
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What if everything you’ve been chasing—success, performance, validation—was never the point?
In this week’s episode of Beyond the Pills, we sit down with PJ Whitner, better known as PJ With Love—a creator, entrepreneur, and modern mystic redefining what it means to live fully awake.
Once a nationally ranked tennis player and founder of a multimillion-dollar wellness brand, PJ mastered the outer game of achievement. But behind the wins, his nervous system was unraveling. Burnout didn’t destroy him—it initiated him. What followed was a profound shift from doing more to being more, from the pursuit of performance to the practice of presence.
“Burnout isn’t failure—it’s the body’s invitation to remember who you really are.” – PJ With Love
In this conversation, PJ opens up about his collapse and awakening, sharing how that breaking point revealed the deeper intelligence of the heart. Through fasting, breathwork, and meditation, he began rebuilding his life from the inside out—learning to lead, create, and love from coherence rather than chaos.
We explore:
- The myth of high performance—why chasing optimization can separate you from your essence.
- The power of coherence—how aligning your mind, body, and spirit creates effortless flow.
- Nervous-system mastery—why calm isn’t withdrawal; it’s control, clarity, and creative power.
- Love as a strategy—what happens when devotion replaces discipline and presence becomes your edge.
PJ’s wisdom bridges science and spirituality, grounding ancient practices in modern reality. Whether you’re a CEO, creator, or someone seeking peace in the noise, his message lands with calm conviction: performance without presence is just pressure.
“You can’t think your way into peace—you have to feel your way there.” – PJ With Love
Throughout this episode, PJ and host Josh Rimany, Pharmacist-turned-healer and founder of the Beyond the Pills movement, explore how true wellness isn’t another supplement or protocol—it’s the restoration of wholeness. They talk about nervous-system regulation as a form of leadership, and how slowing down can actually accelerate impact.
PJ’s journey reminds us that every breakdown carries a sacred blueprint for breakthrough. His story isn’t about rejecting ambition—it’s about redeeming it through awareness. When you operate from love rather than fear, you don’t lose your edge—you refine it.
“Presence is the new performance. The calmer you are, the clearer you see, the faster you grow.” – PJ With Love
Stay tuned until the end as PJ introduces With Love, his upcoming movement dedicated to coherence and creative awakening.
You’ll also hear about:
- The Return — a 7-day inner-practice immersion.
- Wingsday — his weekly YouTube ritual of presence and integration.
- Full-Moon Fasting Ascension — a monthly reset to restore body and spirit.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in overdrive or disconnected from your own inner compass, this episode is your permission slip to pause—to breathe—to come home.
Connect with PJ With Love:
Instagram / TikTok / YouTube → @PJ.WithLove





















