DiscoverYes, please...108: Desires – a devoted path to authentic living
108: Desires – a devoted path to authentic living

108: Desires – a devoted path to authentic living

Update: 2025-09-04
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In this episode, I talk about desire as a sacred path back to yourself—how wanting (not just needing) is deeply empowering in life and in the bedroom. I share how to recognize true desires, rekindle turn-on with simple practices like fantasy and play, and meet any inner resistance with compassion. We finish with a gentle guided visualization to help you connect with your own desire and take one small, aligned step forward.


 


In this episode, I talk about:




  • How your desires can guide you toward an authentic life




  • Needs vs. desires — why the difference matters




  • Building self-worth and daring to want more




  • Desire as the gateway to your erotic self




  • Why fantasizing is good for your sex life




  • Owning your turn-ons (and turn-offs) without shame




  • Why desire doesn’t have an expiration date




  • A guided practice to connect with what you truly crave




 


This is a recording from a live online event I taught. Enjoy!


 


Join my mastermind SHAMELESS


https://www.erika-alsborn.com/shameless


 


Related episodes:


94: Kink as a healing and self-discovery tool with Faith Laux →


93: Amazing sex = amazing life. Sexual growth is at the center of all personal growth →


 


Let’s connect!


Come join me and like-minded women in my FREE women-only, sex-positive community – Pleasure Rebels Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/plsrebels


Follow and reach out on IG: https://www.instagram.com/erikaalsborn 


 


 

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108: Desires – a devoted path to authentic living

108: Desires – a devoted path to authentic living

Erika Alsborn