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109. Man Enough? Patriarchy, Silence & the Cost of Emotional Suppression (With Michael Schaan)

109. Man Enough? Patriarchy, Silence & the Cost of Emotional Suppression (With Michael Schaan)

Update: 2025-10-13
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What if the very system that promised men strength and control was the same one keeping them silent, isolated, and hurting?

In this episode of Live Brighter with Tara, Mike and I dive into the hidden costs of the patriarchal system—how it teaches boys to suppress emotions, shapes relationships into transactions, and leaves many men struggling with shame, guilt, and disconnection.

Together, we share our own experiences of raising sons with emotional intelligence and the lessons we've learned about healthy masculinity, vulnerability, and true intimacy. We also explore what it takes to create safe spaces where men and women alike can show up authentically and build relationships rooted in trust, openness, and compassion.

✨ This is a conversation about breaking cycles, healing together, and reimagining what it really means to live and love with freedom.

 

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PODCAST CHAPTERS:

00:21 Introduction: How the Patriarchal System Shapes Men's Emotional Lives  

00:52 The Pressure to Be "Strong": Why Men Learn to Hide Their Emotions  

04:19 Performance Over Presence: How Men Are Taught to Earn Love  

09:29 Raising Emotionally Intelligent Sons: A New Vision for Masculinity  

12:37 Shame, Guilt, and the Cost of Emotional Suppression  

13:24 Breaking Free: Redefining Masculinity Beyond Performance  

17:52 Rebuilding Intimacy Through Vulnerability and Authentic Connection  

 

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Tags: #LiveBrighterWithTara #HealthyMasculinity #MensMentalHealth #BreakingTheSilence #VulnerabilityInMen #HealingTogether #RelationshipHealing #EmotionalIntelligence #FaithAndLove #PatriarchyAndHealing #MenAndEmotions

 

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109. Man Enough? Patriarchy, Silence & the Cost of Emotional Suppression (With Michael Schaan)

109. Man Enough? Patriarchy, Silence & the Cost of Emotional Suppression (With Michael Schaan)

Tara Wolfe Schaan