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115: I’m the Biggest Daddy

115: I’m the Biggest Daddy

Update: 2024-09-19
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This podcast delves into a variety of relationship dilemmas, offering humorous and often unconventional advice. The episode begins with a caller seeking help for her father's desire to be called "Big Daddy" by his granddaughter, sparking a discussion about the appropriateness of such nicknames. The conversation then shifts to a caller named Rory, who seeks advice on how to help her husband overcome premature ejaculation. The hosts suggest various strategies, including distractions, setting a timer, and even incorporating a "mom" and "enchiladas" approach to create a humorous and unexpected distraction during sex. Later, the hosts introduce the "chores" strategy, which involves focusing the husband's mind on mundane tasks, like fixing the bathroom, during intimacy. They believe this could rewire his brain and improve his performance by distracting him from the pressure of lasting long. The episode also features a follow-up call from a previous caller, Hannah, who reveals the unexpected consequences of trying the hosts' advice. She attempted to flash her husband while he was flossing in the bathroom, leading to a major fight but ultimately a closer relationship. However, the fight didn't solve the original problem, as her husband now flushes in the bed, creating a new challenge. The hosts decide to try a new approach to help Hannah with her husband's flossing habit. They create an audio clip with announcers describing the flossing process in a humorous and exaggerated way, hoping to distract her husband and make him stop flossing in the bed. This episode showcases the show's unique approach to relationship advice, offering both helpful and potentially humorous solutions to real-life dilemmas.

Outlines

00:00:00
Philo, Big Daddy, and the Minute Man

This episode begins with an advertisement for Philo, a streaming service. The hosts then discuss a caller's dilemma about her father wanting to be called "Big Daddy" by his granddaughter. The conversation shifts to a caller named Rory, who seeks advice on how to help her husband overcome premature ejaculation.

00:01:24
Rewiring Roy's Neuro Pathways

The hosts discuss a strategy to help Roy last longer during sex by focusing his mind on mundane tasks, like fixing the bathroom, during intimacy. They believe this could rewire his brain and improve his performance.

00:21:17
Hungry Root, Navage, and Stitch Fix

This segment features advertisements for Hungry Root, Navage, and Stitch Fix.

00:25:31
Aggressive Caller and Bad Room Problems

A caller named Worry starts the conversation with an aggressive tone, leading to a humorous exchange about age and personal information. The conversation then shifts to Rory's problem with her husband's premature ejaculation.

00:43:43
Exploring New Positions and Roy's First Move

The hosts suggest Roy and his partner try new sexual positions to potentially increase his stamina. They discuss their current go-to positions and the potential benefits of branching out. The hosts encourage Roy to try the "chores" strategy during sex and to communicate with his partner about the experiment.

00:48:04
Follow-Up Call and Building Up to the Climax

The hosts ask Roy to call back after three sessions to discuss the results of the "chores" strategy. They express optimism about a positive outcome and emphasize the importance of keeping Gina, Roy's partner, in the dark about the podcast. The hosts discuss the importance of not stopping the sexual activity prematurely, even if Roy is close to climaxing.

00:49:35
Unsexy Strategies and Confusing Roy's Brain

The hosts suggest using hacky jokes and silly voices during sex as a distraction technique to help Roy last longer. They acknowledge that this approach might seem unsexy but believe it could be effective. The hosts believe that using goofy and unexpected behavior during sex can confuse Roy's brain and potentially help him last longer.

00:56:20
Hannah's Follow-Up and The Big Fight

The hosts welcome Hannah back to the show for a follow-up call about her previous episode. They discuss her initial problem, the advice they gave, and the outcome of her efforts to change her husband's behavior. Hannah describes the fight she had with her husband after flashing him while he was flossing. She reveals that the fight ultimately led to a closer relationship, despite the initial tension.

Keywords

Philo


Philo is a streaming service offering live TV and on-demand content from various networks, including A&E, MTV, Discovery, and TLC. It provides a diverse selection of shows, including popular sitcoms like "The Office" and "Friends," and reality shows like "Love After Lockup."

Big Daddy


"Big Daddy" is a nickname some grandparents choose to be called by their grandchildren. However, it can be perceived as inappropriate or even sexually suggestive, especially when used by an older man.

Minute Man


"Minute Man" is a slang term for a man who ejaculates quickly during sex. It can be a source of frustration for both partners, as it can lead to dissatisfaction and a lack of fulfillment.

Neuro Pathways


The pathways in the brain that transmit signals between neurons. These pathways are responsible for various functions, including learning, memory, and behavior.

Positive Reinforcement


A technique used to encourage desired behavior by rewarding it. This can involve providing praise, rewards, or other positive stimuli.

Distraction Technique


A method used to divert attention away from a particular stimulus or behavior. This can be used to manage anxiety, reduce stress, or modify unwanted habits.

Hail Mary


A desperate or last-ditch effort to achieve a desired outcome. This term is often used in sports and other competitive situations.

Flossing


The act of cleaning between teeth with dental floss to remove plaque and food particles. This is an important part of maintaining good oral hygiene.

Announcers


Individuals who provide commentary or narration during events, such as sporting events or broadcasts. They often use colorful language and dramatic descriptions to engage the audience.

Q&A

  • What is the caller's dilemma regarding her father's nickname?

    The caller's father wants to be called "Big Daddy" by his granddaughter, but she finds the nickname inappropriate and potentially sexually suggestive.

  • What are some of the strategies discussed for helping the caller's husband with his premature ejaculation?

    The hosts suggest various strategies, including distractions, setting a timer, and even incorporating a "mom" and "enchiladas" approach to create a humorous and unexpected distraction during sex.

  • What is the purpose of the "mom" and "enchiladas" approach?

    The "mom" and "enchiladas" approach is a humorous strategy to distract the husband during sex by bringing up unrelated and potentially embarrassing topics, hoping to disrupt his focus and prolong the experience.

  • What is the "chores" strategy and how is it supposed to help Roy last longer during sex?

    The "chores" strategy involves focusing Roy's mind on mundane tasks, like fixing the bathroom, during intimacy. The hosts believe this could rewire his brain and improve his performance by distracting him from the pressure of lasting long.

  • What is the significance of Hannah's follow-up call and what does it reveal about the show's impact?

    Hannah's follow-up call highlights the show's unique approach to relationship advice and its potential to both help and hinder couples. It reveals that the show's advice can be effective, but it can also lead to unexpected consequences and challenges.

  • What is the new approach the hosts are taking to help Hannah with her husband's flossing habit?

    The hosts are creating an audio clip with announcers describing the flossing process in a humorous and exaggerated way. They hope that this will distract Hannah's husband and make him stop flossing in the bed.

Show Notes

Jake and Gareth talk to callers about a grandfather’s nickname and some issues in the bedroom. 

Later the guys follow up with the second caller from episode 41 “That’s Not It! with Jeff Kober.” 


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115: I’m the Biggest Daddy

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