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117. What Men Get Wrong About Listening (& What Women Actually Want)

117. What Men Get Wrong About Listening (& What Women Actually Want)

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In this episode, Nick explores why men’s instinct to “fix” things often backfires in relationships. Learn what women really need in moments of frustration or vulnerability, how to listen with empathy instead of solutions, and how this shift can deepen connection and trust.

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117. What Men Get Wrong About Listening (& What Women Actually Want)

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