#121: Peace Over Presents: Letting Go of Comparison in Your Blended Family Christmas
Description
When the holidays roll around, so does the pressure — to make it fair, to make it magical, and to not lose your mind when the ex goes overboard or your stepkids start comparing gifts. In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia unpacks the gift-giving grief that shows up for so many stepmoms — the quiet, unspoken frustration of trying not to compete or control while still wanting to be thoughtful.
You’ll hear how to:
✨ Break the pattern of comparison between homes
✨ Stop feeling like the “gift police” when boundaries get blurry
✨ Reconnect with your real intentions behind giving
✨ Manage your emotions when stepkids brag or gifts feel one-sided
✨ Find peace, presence, and joy without overspending or overcompensating
Whether you’re navigating an over-the-top ex, trying to set spending limits, or just want to make the holidays less stressful, this one’s for you.
Listen to get your peace (and sanity) back this holiday season.
Podcast episode mentioned:
How to Give Better Gifts with Patrick Kucharson
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