When I first started building a real recovery lifestyle, I believed the answer to breaking porn addiction was more control — more discipline, more structure, more “push harder.”

But the truth is, that mindset only kept me trapped in dopamine overload, emotional numbness, and a constant battle against myself.

In this episode, I sit down with my friend Jeremy Lipkowitz — former Buddhist monk, mindfulness teacher, and founder of The Unhooked Academy — to explore a radically different, science-backed path to freedom from porn addiction. 

Together, we break down how chronic stimulation from smartphones, social media, and porn fragments your attention, dysregulates your nervous system, and keeps you from feeling present, alive, and connected to the people you love.

We dive into the neuroscience behind dopamine dysregulation, the psychology of shame and perfectionism, and the emotional patterns that keep men locked in compulsive behavior. I share what happened during my own 30-day presence challenge — how putting my phone away transformed my marriage, my mental clarity, and my sense of identity — and why learning to cultivate presence, embodiment, and noble pleasure is essential to losing your desire for porn.

This conversation blends neuroscience, mindfulness, masculine leadership, and real emotional healing to show you how to rewire your brain, regulate your emotions, and build a recovery mindset defined by presence, purpose, and genuine internal peace.

In This Episode, We Explore:
• Why willpower and white-knuckling fail — and how awareness and emotional regulation create real freedom from porn addiction
• How dopamine overload from technology and porn trains your brain for distraction, restlessness, and chronic dissatisfaction
• The difference between base pleasures and noble pleasures — and how earned dopamine rebuilds identity and direction
• How shame, fear, and perfectionism fuel addiction — and how to transform painful emotions instead of escaping them
• The role of mindfulness, presence, and embodiment in healing the nervous system and rewiring cravings
• Why smartphone addiction and porn addiction are neurologically intertwined — and how a simple phone detox can reset your brain
• How relational connection, vulnerability, and community become powerful antidotes to cravings and isolation
• Practical methods to rewire your brain through mindfulness, intentional routines, and recovery-focused habits

If you’ve been fighting yourself in recovery,  this conversation will help you make peace with your mind, reconnect with your body, and build a lifestyle where porn no longer has a pull on you.

You don’t overcome porn addiction by forcing yourself to be stronger.
 You overcome it by becoming more present, more aware, and more connected to what truly brings you life.

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