129. Playdates Without Panic: 3 Steps to Solve Hitting, Scratching or Grabbing.

129. Playdates Without Panic: 3 Steps to Solve Hitting, Scratching or Grabbing.

Update: 2025-10-08
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Today we explore why toddlers hit, bite, and grab at playdates and how to respond without shame or panic...and with tools that will shift the behavior for real!

Did you know - these challenging child behaviors are VERY common in the early years of development?! 

Research shows that these behaviors are actually very common in early childhood. Studies find that between 26% and 70% of toddlers show some form of physical aggression — hitting, biting, pushing, or scratching — depending on how it’s measured.  And in real-life parent reports, around 50–60% of children ages 1-3 hit or lash out at least occasionally when frustrated.

So first off.. not need to think you are failing or raising a psychopath. 

When your child hits, spits, or scratches at a playdate, it can feel mortifying — but these moments are actually powerful teaching opportunities. 

In this episode, I'll share 3 Playdate Reset Tips, including:

  • How to remember what really matters, 
  • How to teach your child the new behaviors in a way that will finally STICK.
  • How to get the end results of more FUN and EASY playdates, without any amount of panic.


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129. Playdates Without Panic: 3 Steps to Solve Hitting, Scratching or Grabbing.

129. Playdates Without Panic: 3 Steps to Solve Hitting, Scratching or Grabbing.

Flora McCormick, LCPC, Parenting Coach