DiscoverRecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery130 - Compliance vs Proactivity How to Help your Betrayed Partner Feel Safe and Heal
130 - Compliance vs Proactivity How to Help your Betrayed Partner Feel Safe and Heal

130 - Compliance vs Proactivity How to Help your Betrayed Partner Feel Safe and Heal

Update: 2025-08-20
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In this episode, Kylene and Patrick explore the difference between compliance—“just checking the boxes”, and true proactivity, where personal responsibility becomes the driving force of recovery.

They share why compliance alone can feel hollow, often leaving betrayed partners frustrated as they wait for their spouse to engage in recovery with equal energy and commitment.


Together, they unpack why consistency matters, and how the power of repetition creates the foundation for lasting, meaningful healing.



 

If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql


 


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130 - Compliance vs Proactivity How to Help your Betrayed Partner Feel Safe and Heal

130 - Compliance vs Proactivity How to Help your Betrayed Partner Feel Safe and Heal

NLP master life coach, Betrayal Recovery Coach, FDN-P