What if the very things that feel like they’re protecting you are actually keeping you stuck?

In this episode, I break down the five unconscious strategies that block healing from anxiety. I call it MADDS: medication, addiction, distraction, dissociation, and suppression. Each of these starts as a survival tool, but over time they numb us, disconnect us from our bodies, and cut us off from the younger self that needs our attention. I get real about the role medication plays, why worry itself can become addictive, and how dissociation becomes a default setting for many of us. Most importantly, I show how awareness, acceptance, and compassion can start to break the cycle so we can finally move toward real healing instead of just coping.

You’ll Learn:

• The five nervous system strategies that quietly block anxiety healing
• Why medications can help in crisis, but often numb long-term emotional recovery
• The surprising link between worry and the brain’s dopamine reward system
• How addictions form as self-medication for the body’s stored alarm
• The subtle ways distractions like social media pull you further from your body
• What it feels like to live in dissociation and why it’s so hard to stop
• How suppression of emotion can lead to deeper anxiety and physical illness
• The role of awareness and acceptance in breaking the anxiety coping cycle
• A simple ABC method to reconnect with your younger self and release the need for coping strategies

Timestamps:

[00:00 ] Introduction

[03:30 ] The role and limits of medication in healing anxiety

[09:17 ] How addictions and worry become coping mechanisms for anxiety

[13:00 ] How distraction masks anxiety and deepens disconnection

[14:58 ] How dissociation protects us from pain but blocks healing

[17:10 ] How suppression of emotions leads to disconnection and illness

[19:11 ] How awareness and self-compassion break the cycle of anxiety coping strategies

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