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182. “We’re $350k in debt & have no savings. Will I have to work until we die?”

182. “We’re $350k in debt & have no savings. Will I have to work until we die?”

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Don is 50, Tana is 48, and they’ve struggled to make ends meet their entire adult lives. They have a lot of debt, they’ve never really saved or thought they’d be able to retire… but their income has recently DOUBLED and they’re wondering how to manage the extra money. Throughout this conversation, as Don and Tana work to set aside their scarcity mindset, you’ll hear how hard it can be to change.

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182. “We’re $350k in debt & have no savings. Will I have to work until we die?”

182. “We’re $350k in debt & have no savings. Will I have to work until we die?”

Ramit Sethi