DiscoverDivorce Your Story Podcast194. Losing the Marriage, Finding the Man: Beyond Performance, Provision, and Pressure w./ Jerry Vaval
194. Losing the Marriage, Finding the Man: Beyond Performance, Provision, and Pressure w./ Jerry Vaval

194. Losing the Marriage, Finding the Man: Beyond Performance, Provision, and Pressure w./ Jerry Vaval

Update: 2025-10-21
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When divorce happens, the focus often centers on women, their stories, their pain, and their healing. And while that’s important and necessary, we also have to acknowledge this truth: Men go through it too.


  • They hurt.
  • They question their worth.
  • They wrestle with identity, guilt, and the quiet pressure to keep showing up even when their world feels uncertain.


In this episode, I sit down with Jerry Vaval, father of four, career professional, and co-host of The Giant Fundamentals Podcast, for a real and vulnerable conversation about life after divorce from a man’s perspective.


In this episode, we discuss:

  • How men process pain and identity after divorce
  • How childhood conditioning influences adult relationships
  • What true accountability and growth look like for men
  • The evolving meaning of masculinity, love, and leadership


This conversation is a reminder that healing doesn’t belong to one side of the story. It’s about moving past what we think we know and beginning to truly understand what men experience, feel, and carry after divorce.


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194. Losing the Marriage, Finding the Man: Beyond Performance, Provision, and Pressure w./ Jerry Vaval

194. Losing the Marriage, Finding the Man: Beyond Performance, Provision, and Pressure w./ Jerry Vaval

Tonya Carter