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20. Showing Up Before You’re Invited

20. Showing Up Before You’re Invited

Update: 2025-12-10
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In the first-ever solo episode of Through the Back Door, we talk ambition — what it really looks like, why it gets labeled as “cringe,” and why it’s the real engine behind success in the fashion industry.

We are celebrating episode number 20!

I reflect on my week in New York fashion, from attending the Chanel watch party to noticing how fashion culture is becoming more community-driven, creator-led, and accessible. From there, I connect pop culture, history, and real life — pulling inspiration from The Gilded Age, the rise of fashion content creators, and the relentless networking that helped figures like Kim Kardashian long before their success felt inevitable.

This episode is about owning what you want without apology, especially in fashion, where nothing is handed to you. We talk about taking up space before you’re invited, legitimizing yourself when no one gives you permission, and understanding that success is often engineered, not accidental.

I wrap with a weekly inspiration list — what I’m reading, wearing, and loving — plus a quick update on what’s coming next for the podcast.

If you’re a designer, creator, stylist, or anyone building something from the ground up, this episode is for you.

Links & Mentions

Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself by Dr Joe Dispenza
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1401938094

Mary & Shelly – Guitar Strap Bag
https://maryandshelly.com

Miista Boots
https://www.miista.com

Summer Fridays – Lip Butter Balm
https://summerfridays.com

Summer Fridays – Sheer Skin Tint
https://summerfridays.com


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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlintofashion


Fashion networking & resources
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/workinginfashion
Substack: https://workinginfashion.substack.com

Subscribe, rate, and share if you loved the episode — more fashion deep dives coming soon.

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20. Showing Up Before You’re Invited

20. Showing Up Before You’re Invited

Claire Vastola