20. Showing Up Before You’re Invited
Description
In the first-ever solo episode of Through the Back Door, we talk ambition — what it really looks like, why it gets labeled as “cringe,” and why it’s the real engine behind success in the fashion industry.
We are celebrating episode number 20!
I reflect on my week in New York fashion, from attending the Chanel watch party to noticing how fashion culture is becoming more community-driven, creator-led, and accessible. From there, I connect pop culture, history, and real life — pulling inspiration from The Gilded Age, the rise of fashion content creators, and the relentless networking that helped figures like Kim Kardashian long before their success felt inevitable.
This episode is about owning what you want without apology, especially in fashion, where nothing is handed to you. We talk about taking up space before you’re invited, legitimizing yourself when no one gives you permission, and understanding that success is often engineered, not accidental.
I wrap with a weekly inspiration list — what I’m reading, wearing, and loving — plus a quick update on what’s coming next for the podcast.
If you’re a designer, creator, stylist, or anyone building something from the ground up, this episode is for you.
Links & Mentions
Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself by Dr Joe Dispenza
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1401938094
Mary & Shelly – Guitar Strap Bag
https://maryandshelly.com
Miista Boots
https://www.miista.com
Summer Fridays – Lip Butter Balm
https://summerfridays.com
Summer Fridays – Sheer Skin Tint
https://summerfridays.com
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Fashion networking & resources
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/workinginfashion
Substack: https://workinginfashion.substack.com
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