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205. From Avoidant to Authentic: David’s Journey to Secure Attachment

205. From Avoidant to Authentic: David’s Journey to Secure Attachment

Update: 2025-06-18
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This week, I’m joined by my former client David to talk about his transformation from emotionally shutdown and YouTube-binging to expressive, boundary-setting, and boxing-loving. We get real about what it’s like to live with a dismissive avoidant attachment style, how it affected his friendships and relationships, and how he slowly built a more secure sense of self—one tiny step (and one tucked-in shirt) at a time. You’ll laugh, maybe cry, and definitely relate if you’ve ever felt like the “quiet, weird one” at the party. David’s actually charming AF.

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205. From Avoidant to Authentic: David’s Journey to Secure Attachment

205. From Avoidant to Authentic: David’s Journey to Secure Attachment