211: Birthing Outside the System: No Scans, No Doctors, Just Deep Trust with Meg O'Neill
Description
Join Lexy Davis and guest Meg O’Neill in this powerful and perspective shifting convo around freebirth and without any medical visits. Together, they explore love, pregnancy, birthing from the pussy not the protoccol, motherhood, feminine embodiment, deep trust and the freedom that comes with choosing your own path. Meg, an experienced sex and feminine embodiment coach, shares her transformative pregnancy journey, including her decision to have a wild pregnancy and unassisted birth, and how deeply it reshaped her relationship with herself and her partner.
- Why embracing your desires is essential for healthy, aligned relationships
- Meg’s personal story of preparing for motherhood after nearly a decade with her partner
- The importance of inner healing and emotional readiness before conceiving
- How to reconnect with your body and trust the natural birthing process
- What a birth keeper does and how they differ from a doula
- Empowering tips for women preparing for a conscious and confident birth experience
Whether you're a mother, planning for pregnancy, exploring embodiment work, or simply curious about intentional motherhood and self-discovery, this episode is filled with wisdom, grounding insights, and encouragement.
Listen now for an empowering conversation that inspires you to trust your intuition, honor your body, and embrace your unique path to motherhood.
Golden Nuggets From This Episode:
✨ “My work is really about owning our desires and bringing them alive in our bodies, our relationships, our births, and our entire life.”
✨ “Your desires lead the way—revealing them becomes the portal to everything you want in intimacy and partnership.”
✨ “A child is an amplifier—they simply magnify what already exists within us.”
Parenthood reflects back our inner world, inviting greater awareness and emotional clarity.
✨ “Under every complaint is a desire.”
A powerful reframe that transforms conflict into deeper connection and understanding.
✨ “I felt ready to pour myself into something meaningful.”
Stepping into motherhood often begins with a quiet inner readiness.
✨ “The deepest invitation of pregnancy, birth, and motherhood—especially unassisted birth—is surrender and letting go.”
True empowerment often comes through releasing control and trusting the process.
✨ “I never saw birth as a medical event.”
A perspective that honors birth as a natural, intuitive experience rather than a clinical one.
✨ “The real work was done before I conceived—I trusted the process fully.”
Inner healing and preparation create a strong foundation for conscious motherhood.
✨ “The same thing that gets the baby in, gets the baby out.”
A reminder of the deep connection between pleasure, trust, and the natural rhythms of the body.
Connect More with :
IG: @the.meg.o
Website: www.meg-oneill.com
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Timestamps from episode:
- 00:00 – Introduction to Lexy Davis
- 00:55 – Welcoming Meg O'Neill
- 03:18 – Meg's Journey to Motherhood
- 06:26 – Conception Story
- 09:04 – Pregnancy and Birth Choices
- 18:31 – Navigating Family Reactions
- 30:20 – Soft Girl Season Ad
- 31:51 – Connecting with the Baby
- 33:19 – Planning an In-Person Immersion During Pregnancy
- 33:51 – Balancing Work and Pregnancy
- 36:02 – Exercise and Supplements During Pregnancy
- 38:02 – Choosing a Birth Keeper
- 40:55 – Preparing for Birth and Postpartum
- 46:23 – The Birth Story
- 01:01:53 – Postpartum Support and Community
- 01:05:02 – Favorite Romantic Memories
- 01:05:47 – Where to Find More Content
- 01:06:58 – Closing Thoughts and Gratitude





