22. The Shame We Carry: A Solo Reflection from the Road
Description
In this personal solo episode, I speak to you from the road in Connemara, reflecting on shame, motherhood, identity, and healing.
This is an unfiltered glimpse into the vulnerable spaces of my life — from navigating single motherhood and shame spirals to reconnecting with community, therapy, and the sea.
I explore what it means to parent through pain, carry ancestral wounds, and search for grounding amidst life's messiness.
This episode is for any mother (or parent) who’s ever felt overwhelmed, ashamed, or alone — and who needs the reminder that repair is always possible, and joy and sorrow are two sides of the same coin.
✨ Topics Covered:
The emotional complexity of solo (or "double") parenting
Shame in motherhood — personal, societal, and ancestral
Reflections on Kahlil Gibran’s The Prophet: Joy as unmasked sorrow
The impact of Catholic Ireland, slut shaming, and generational trauma
Somatic responses to emotional pain (solar plexus tension, nervous system dysregulation)
IFS therapy and connecting with a practitioner for support
Epigenetics: the science behind inheriting trauma
Letting go of perfectionism in conscious parenting
Screen time, single parenting survival, and flexibility
The importance of repair and nervous system regulation
Holding space for big feelings — in ourselves and our children
A prayer for mothers to be grounded in their full expression
✨ I’d love to hear from you—how are these episodes landing with you? Would you like to share your story on the podcast? Contact me lauraguinnane@gmail.com
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Laura x




