DiscoverThe Found Podcast with Molly Knuth222: Never Wait to Be Invited: Lessons on Friendship for Ambitious Women with Nina Badzin
222: Never Wait to Be Invited: Lessons on Friendship for Ambitious Women with Nina Badzin

222: Never Wait to Be Invited: Lessons on Friendship for Ambitious Women with Nina Badzin

Update: 2025-10-08
Share

Description

Friendship as an adult can be complicated — especially when you're an ambitious woman balancing work, motherhood, and a full life. That's why this week's guest, Nina Badzin, has spent over a decade studying, writing about, and talking about what makes friendships work (and why they sometimes don't).

Nina is the host of the Dear Nina podcast, a Top 1% charted show that's been featured in The Wall Street Journal, TIME, NPR, and The Washington Post. She's made it her mission to help women rethink how we approach adult friendships with grace, intention, and a healthy dose of realism.

In this conversation, Molly and Nina unpack what it really takes to maintain friendship as ambitious women, from how to handle rejection to why it's always your turn to reach out.


What You'll Hear in This Episode:

  • Why rejection is a natural (and essential) part of life and friendship

  • The importance of "freshman energy" and physically showing up in new communities

  • How to overcome fear of initiation  and why it's always your turn to make the first move

  • Why ambitious women often struggle to prioritize friendship and how to change that

  • Actionable ways to cultivate connection right where you are


Key Quotes:

"If we as adults could learn to have a softer reaction to rejection, we would try more things and friendships wouldn't feel so high-stakes." – Nina Badzin

"The people with the happiest social lives accept that it is always their turn. If you make plans, you have plans." – Nina Badzin


Resources & Links:

Comments 
00:00
00:00
x

0.5x

0.8x

1.0x

1.25x

1.5x

2.0x

3.0x

Sleep Timer

Off

End of Episode

5 Minutes

10 Minutes

15 Minutes

30 Minutes

45 Minutes

60 Minutes

120 Minutes

222: Never Wait to Be Invited: Lessons on Friendship for Ambitious Women with Nina Badzin

222: Never Wait to Be Invited: Lessons on Friendship for Ambitious Women with Nina Badzin