23: Boundaries Aren’t Control — They’re Connection
Description
In this episode of the Science for Soundness — The Podcast, we explore what boundaries truly mean in the horse-human relationship — and why they’re essential for nervous system safety and sustainable connection.
So many equestrians are swinging from dominance-based methods to totally force-free approaches — and finding themselves lost when it comes to offering structure without control.
Here’s the truth: Boundaries are not domination. They are clarity.
When you understand the nervous system, you see that boundaries aren't just helpful — they're vital.
We’ll cover:
- Why a lack of boundaries often creates more stress, not less
- What polyvagal theory teaches us about boundary safety
- Why horses actually crave consistency and clarity
- How your own history with boundaries impacts your horsemanship
- How to begin creating boundaries from a place of regulation and respect
This isn’t about force.
It’s about felt safety, relational leadership, and honouring your horse’s need for structure and trust.
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