DiscoverThe Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD246. Beyond Goal-Oriented Intimacy: Why the Journey Is As Important As the Orgasm
246. Beyond Goal-Oriented Intimacy: Why the Journey Is As Important As the Orgasm

246. Beyond Goal-Oriented Intimacy: Why the Journey Is As Important As the Orgasm

Update: 2025-09-03
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Are you ready for a new perspective on intimacy with your partner?

In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores how true connection flourishes when couples focus on the journey, not the destination. With stories drawn from decades of marriage and metaphors ranging from mountain biking to fine dining, you’ll discover how embracing the richness of each moment deepens love and fulfillment. 

This conversation is an invitation to move beyond goal-oriented intimacy and instead experience the joy of being fully present with your partner.

 

In this episode:

  • Savor the Journey: Why presence deepens intimacy.

  • Fresh Perspectives: Sports and dining analogies that inspire connection.

  • Break Patterns: Move beyond routines to spark creativity.

  • Slow Down: How extended arousal enriches pleasure.

  • Beyond Goals: Focusing on connection, not outcomes.



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Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

 

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www.alignedhotmarriage.com

 

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This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

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246. Beyond Goal-Oriented Intimacy: Why the Journey Is As Important As the Orgasm

246. Beyond Goal-Oriented Intimacy: Why the Journey Is As Important As the Orgasm