In this episode, Nicole Casey discusses how to handle situations where one's approach in therapy is questioned or judged. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the root of such questions, often stemming from fear, and advocates for a collaborative and curiosity-driven response rather than defensiveness. The conversation also touches on setting boundaries with colleagues and the challenges of implementing child-led therapy, highlighting the need for clear communication and shared goals.

Takeaways

• When feeling questioned, it's important to pause and reflect.
• Defensiveness can hinder effective communication and learning.
• Understanding the root of questions can lead to better responses.
• Finding common ground helps in collaborative discussions.
• Child-led therapy is evidence-based and not chaotic.
• Protest from children can be a sign of autonomy, not failure.
• Setting boundaries with colleagues is crucial for maintaining focus.
• Providing clear information about therapy can alleviate concerns.
• It's essential to connect and collaborate rather than convince.
• Child-led therapy requires flexibility and self-awareness.

Chapters

00:00 Navigating Questions and Judgments
10:09 Defensive Responses and Their Impact
19:40 Finding Common Ground in Therapy
24:18 Setting Boundaries with Colleagues
31:22 The Challenges of Child-Led Therapy

therapy, child-led, communication, defensiveness, collaboration, behaviorism, GLP, education, parenting, professional boundaries