287: Dismantling Ageism with Ashton Applewhite
Description
Studies show that ageism isn’t just socially, psychologically, and economically damaging, but it can also be harmful to your health. First proposed by Dr. Becca Levy, Stereotype Embodiment Theory hypothesizes that feeling “old” correlates with the toxic narratives we’re force-fed by society.
Meaning, those aches and pains, slower gait, energy dips, and belief that your mind isn’t “as sharp as it used to be,” can stem not from fact, but from a self-fulfilling prophecy. We begin to mirror how we’re told we “should” feel at that age, even if it’s fabricated for division and profit.
Welcome to our very first Bean Pod. It’ll serve as the new formula going forward where I’ll group and release three threaded episodes in a row. Even cozier than before, you can now also watch the interviews on video. Then, I’ll follow each Bean Pod with a week for rest, reflection, and open discussion inside the IN TRANSIT Hub.
Our first Bean Pod will feature three inspiring professionals disrupting norms and sharing facts that may not only extend your life but also deeply enhance its quality.
And this week, it’s my honor to have activist and author Ashton Applewhite join us to discuss ageism. Many thought leaders have labeled Ashton’s book, This Chair Rocks: A Manifesto Against Ageism, a “must-read.”
As an internationally recognized expert on ageism, Ashton’s work has been featured in TED Talks, at the United Nations, and in publications including Harper’s, the Guardian, and the New York Times.
Today, Ashton shares macro and micro ways that we can recognize, confront, and dismantle ageism. (Spoiler Alert: NO, it’s not something that impacts just women and older people.) She also provides the nutritive narratives that should replace ageism.
What You’ll Learn in this Episode:
- Ageism as a shared transition
- Gaining awareness of daily microaggressions
- The only two unavoidable negative aspects of aging
- Why age is seldom the reason people get along
- The U-Curve of Happiness
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- Sundae’s Website
- Sundae’s Facebook Business Page – Sundae Schneider-Bean LLC
- Sundae Bean – YouTube
- Wisdom Fusion Project
- This Chair Rocks: A Manifesto Against Ageism
- Old School Anti-Ageism Clearinghouse
- Yo, Is This Ageist?
- Breaking the Age Code: How Your Beliefs About Aging Determine How Long and Well You Live by Becca Levy
- TED Talk: Let’s end ageism
- This Chair Rocks – Instagram
- This Chair Rocks – Twitter
- This Chair Rocks – YouTube
Catch These Podcasts / Articles:
- We Can Do Hard Things with Glennon Doyle. Pro-Aging: Why the Best is Yet to Come with Ashton Applewhite.
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Full Episode Transcript:
Hello, It is 1:30 pm in New York, 7:30 pm in Johannesburg, and 12:30 am in Bangkok. Welcome to IN TRANSIT with Sundae Bean. I am an intercultural strategist, transformation facilitator, and solution-oriented coach, and I am on a mission to help you adapt & succeed through ANY life transition.
If you know my work you know that I say that our lives are always in transit and in so many ways but there is one way that we all have in common and that is aging. And this week’s guest said so perfectly, “We are aging from the moment we are born. It’s not something annoying that elders do.” So this is from Ashton Applewhite and she is our guest today on IN TRANSIT. Welcome, Ashton.
Ashton: My pleasure Sundae, thanks for having me.
Sundae: So I’ll say a little bit more about those who are unfamiliar with Ashton’s work. Ashton Applewhite is the author of This Chair Rocks: A Manifesto Against Ageism and she is the co-founder of Old School Anti-Ageism Clearinghouse. She’s an internationally recognized expert on ageism, she speaks widely at venues, that have included TED Talks, the United Nations and she’s also appeared on We Can Do Hard Things with Glennon Doyle. She has written for Harper’s, the Guardian, the New York Times, and more, and is the voice of Yo, Is This Ageist? Ashton, needless to say, is a leading spokesperson for the emerging movement to raise awareness of ageism and to dismantle it.
So Ashton, I think it’s obvious from our quick pre-chat that I’ve been really looking forward to learning from you and hearing your perspectives today.
But I want to make a little confession when we start, I have this thing, when I would listen to your work about ageism, and the ways in which it limits us, I keep thinking about a wedding dance, where I am 86 and like




