DiscoverThe Thoughtful Leader Podcast with Ben Brearley#296: It’s time to stop owning other people’s problems.
#296: It’s time to stop owning other people’s problems.

#296: It’s time to stop owning other people’s problems.

Update: 2025-09-21
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In this episode, we look at a common challenge for thoughtful leaders – taking too much responsibility for other people’s problems.

Reflection and self-awareness are powerful strengths.

But when reflection turns into overthinking and self-criticism, leaders can start to “own” problems that aren’t really theirs to solve.

I explore why thoughtful leaders are prone to this, how it increases stress and disempowers both you and your team, and what you can do to set healthy boundaries.

You’ll also hear why accountability must stay with the person who owns the issue, not with you as the leader.

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#296: It’s time to stop owning other people’s problems.

#296: It’s time to stop owning other people’s problems.

Ben Brearley