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3 Signs You Only Like Yourself When You're Winning

3 Signs You Only Like Yourself When You're Winning

Update: 2025-09-04
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Subscribe if you're ready to discover whether you truly accept yourself or just think you do.

In this episode, I reveal the three signs that expose conditional self-acceptance - something most high-achieving women don't even realize they're doing. You might think you love yourself, but if you only feel good when you're winning, have impossible standards for everyone around you, and can never truly enjoy your successes, your self-acceptance has strings attached.

Here's what we cover:

  • Why only feeling good about yourself when you're achieving is a red flag
  • How your unrealistic expectations of others reveal your relationship with yourself
  • Why your contentment never lasts (and what this says about your self-worth)
  • The survival-based programming that makes self-acceptance conditional
  • How to begin accepting yourself without having to earn it

This isn't about self-esteem or confidence - it's about recognizing the unconscious patterns that keep you trapped in a cycle of having to prove your worth over and over again.

If you're tired of feeling like you're never enough, even when you're successful, this episode will help you understand why - and what to do about it.

Ready to move from survival-based success to authentic thriving? Get my free masterclass: https://insightfulessence.com/

Let me know which of these three signs resonated most with you by leaving a review or sending me a message.

#SelfAcceptance #HighAchiever #ConditionalLove #SelfWorth #PersonalGrowth #SurvivalMode #EmotionalIntelligence #Perfectionism

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3 Signs You Only Like Yourself When You're Winning

3 Signs You Only Like Yourself When You're Winning

Roselyn Pérez, Insightful Essence™ | Self-Awareness & Success Expert | LCSW