410 - 3 Energy Leaks Every High-Achieving Woman Has During the Holidays (And How to Stop Them)
Description
There are three things silently draining your energy this week — and they have nothing to do with your schedule.
They’re happening inside your nervous system.
And once you learn to spot them, you can interrupt them in seconds.
Holiday overwhelm isn’t random.
It’s patterned.
In today’s episode, we’re breaking down the exact mechanisms behind each pattern, why they intensify during the holidays, and how to use simple, science-backed somatic interrupters to reclaim your capacity in real time.
✨ Quick reminder before we dive in:
Honor Your Energy — my 7-Day Nervous System + Boundaries Reset — is officially open for enrollment this week only.
If you’re tired of feeling maxed out or living at the edge of burnout, this reset will help you regulate your system quickly and stop leaking energy in your everyday life.
👉 Click here for Honor Your Energy: A 7-Day Nervous System + Boundaries Reset!
🌟 Click here for Honor Your Energy + VIP Capacity Alignment Audit
Inside this episode, you’ll learn:
✔️ The neuroscience behind invisible labor
How hypervigilance, predictive modeling, and mirror neurons pull you into cognitive overload long before you feel overwhelmed — and why shaking + heel drops instantly discharge sympathetic activation.
✔️ Why emotional caretaking feels automatic
How empathy circuitry, emotional fusion, and the fawn response activate during family gatherings… and the 30-second somatic reset that restores your emotional boundaries on the spot.
✔️ What causes boundary collapse under pressure
Why your brain predicts “no” as a threat, how stress hijacks executive function, and how to use the micro-pause + physiological sigh to access choice instead of reflex.
✔️ How holiday stress reduces your window of tolerance
A deeper look at allostatic load, anticipatory stress, and why your bandwidth shrinks even when you’re technically “off.”
✔️ Three practical somatic interrupters you can use anywhere
Each tool is fast, discreet, and physiology-backed — perfect for crowded kitchens, emotional conversations, and overstimulated evenings.
⭐ Enrollment for Honor Your Energy is open now.
If this episode lands in your body — if you feel stretched thin, reactive, or overloaded — this is the week to reset your capacity.
Honor Your Energy is a 7-day Nervous System + Boundaries Reset designed to help you:
✨ regulate your system quickly
✨ stop leaking energy through invisible labor and people-pleasing
✨ interrupt your stress response in real time
✨ rebuild your bandwidth in a way that fits your real life
✨ protect your energy with boundaries your body actually feels safe holding
You’ll receive:
✔️ Daily somatic resets
✔️ The Boundary Alignment Tracker (your clarity tool for overgiving)
✔️ The Energy-Honoring Script Library (no-guilt boundaries made easy)
✔️ Your Stress Response Profile — a live workshop with Michelle
✔️ Optional upgrade: The Capacity Alignment Audit™
…a personalized analysis of your real-life energy leaks + a VIP coaching call to walk through it
Enrollment closes soon — grab your spot while it’s
Honor Your Energy — my 7-Day Nervous System + Boundaries Reset — is officially open for enrollment!
👉 Click here for Honor Your Energy: A 7-Day Nervous System + Boundaries Reset!
🌟 Click here for Honor Your Energy + VIP Capacity Alignment Audit



