46. Shifting Generational Cycles Through Repair and Regulation
Update: 2025-04-18
Description
In this episode of Reframing Neurodiversity, Melissa explains how parents can begin shifting generational cycles through nervous system self-regulation and the powerful practice of repair. She offers insight into how even imperfect parenting moments can become healing opportunities, and how showing up differently—especially in moments of disconnection—can change everything.
What you'll learn:
- What the "gift of repair" means and why it’s vital in parenting
- How self-regulation helps interrupt inherited patterns
- Why difficult behavior in kids often signals a deeper need for connection
- How validating a child’s experience helps prevent trauma
- A real-life example of healing a strained parent-teen relationship
- Tools and resources to support emotional regulation
Questions answered in this episode:
- What do I do when I repeat the parenting patterns I swore I wouldn’t?
- Can I still be a good parent if I mess up sometimes?
- Why is it important to apologize to children?
- How can I hold space for my child when I’m triggered myself?
- What does it look like to shift cycles in real life?
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