#5 (Expectations Series) What They Expect of Themselves: Helping Kids Build Healthy Self-Talk and Intrinsic Motivation
Description
Your child’s inner voice shapes the way they see themselves—and the way they respond to the world around them. So how do we help kids build a voice that’s kind, resilient, and reflective?
In this episode, we’re digging into how self-talk forms, why it matters more than we often realize, and how it ties into intrinsic motivation and self-accountability. You’ll hear real-life stories, practical ideas, and simple ways to support your child’s emotional growth—without trying to control their every move or thought.
You’ll learn:
What self-talk sounds like in different stages of development
How kids internalize expectations (both good and bad)
Why “ownership” is key to long-term motivation
What healthy accountability looks like—and how to support it without shame
3 conversation starters to help your child reflect, reset, and build confidence from the inside out
💛 Whether your child is struggling with self-doubt, perfectionism, or just needs help building internal motivation, this episode is full of helpful insight you can use right away.
🔗 Plus, don’t forget to download your free guide:
5 Ways to Create Time for Connection with Your Kids at www.whatiwantmykidstoknow.com
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