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5 Mistakes Parents Make When Their Toddler Says ‘No’ (and What to Do Instead)

5 Mistakes Parents Make When Their Toddler Says ‘No’ (and What to Do Instead)

Update: 2025-11-12
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5 Mistakes Parents Make When Toddlers Say No (And What to Do Instead!)

Welcome to the 100th episode of Toddler Toolkit Podcast!

Join the Calm Superpower Cohort HERE!
In this 3-week live experience, starting November 3rd, we’ll walk through the three biggest areas of toddler struggle:
1️⃣ Listening and cooperation
 2️⃣ Meltdowns and emotional coaching
 3️⃣ Triggers and your own calm superpower

You’ll get live Q&As, short lessons, and strategies that actually work in real life.

 

In this episode, we discuss the five common mistakes parents make when their toddlers say 'no' and provide effective strategies to handle these situations. From avoiding saying 'no' too often, to understanding the root cause behind the behaviors, and the limitations of offering choices, we cover it all. Tune in for practical tips to navigate your toddler's challenging moments and improve your parenting approach. Plus, don't forget to check out our free guide on the Seven Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast. See you in the next episode!

00:00 Welcome to the 100th Episode!
00:14 Introduction to Toddler Toolkit
00:54 Mistake #1: Saying No Too Much
02:03 Mistake #2: Trying to Change Too Many Behaviors
03:57 Mistake #3: Misunderstanding the Root Cause
05:49 Mistake #4: Teaching What Not to Do
06:52 Mistake #5: Assuming Choices Are the Only Fix
10:48 Recap and Final Thoughts

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"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!

Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!


Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course.  You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!

Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.

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5 Mistakes Parents Make When Their Toddler Says ‘No’ (and What to Do Instead)

5 Mistakes Parents Make When Their Toddler Says ‘No’ (and What to Do Instead)

Heather Schalk, M.Ed.