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5. Not Tonight? Why Good Signals Make Sexual Sparks Fly: Dr. Michael Sytsma

5. Not Tonight? Why Good Signals Make Sexual Sparks Fly: Dr. Michael Sytsma

Update: 2023-03-07

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Initiating or declining sex: It's tricky. Are your signals clear to your spouse? Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma helps you with “not tonight” and “yes, please.”
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Download our app to listen to Brian Goins, Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn as they cover more questions.
For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com.
Grab Shaunti and Dr. Sytsma's book in our shop: Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference.

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5. Not Tonight? Why Good Signals Make Sexual Sparks Fly: Dr. Michael Sytsma

5. Not Tonight? Why Good Signals Make Sexual Sparks Fly: Dr. Michael Sytsma

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