DiscoverBetween Two Clinicians50. “Why Do I Keep Picking the Same People?” – Patterns, Projections, and Repetition Compulsion
50. “Why Do I Keep Picking the Same People?” – Patterns, Projections, and Repetition Compulsion

50. “Why Do I Keep Picking the Same People?” – Patterns, Projections, and Repetition Compulsion

Update: 2025-09-08
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In this episode, Adam Luke and Talia Bombola explore the complex dynamics of relationships, focusing on why individuals often find themselves repeating the same patterns in their romantic choices. They discuss concepts such as repetition compulsion, the influence of childhood experiences on adult relationships, and the importance of understanding attachment styles. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-awareness and the recognition of personal patterns to foster healthier relationships. The hosts also touch on the significance of setting clear expectations and deal breakers in dating, advocating for open communication and honesty in relationships.

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50. “Why Do I Keep Picking the Same People?” – Patterns, Projections, and Repetition Compulsion

50. “Why Do I Keep Picking the Same People?” – Patterns, Projections, and Repetition Compulsion

Talia Bombola, LMFT and Adam Luke, LMFT