Episode 51: We feel like we know our parents or older relatives inside and out—but what if there are entire chapters of their lives we've never heard about? Imagine being able to ask the right questions now, so you don’t miss the chance to understand their stories, lessons, and legacies.

In this heartfelt episode, I share why midlife is the perfect time to connect with the older generation in your family. From surprising stories about college rules in the 1960s to powerful questions about values, regrets, and traditions, you’ll discover how simple conversations can deepen relationships and preserve family history for years to come.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:

✔ Why asking open-ended questions creates powerful, memorable conversations
 ✔ The surprising reasons we often avoid asking our parents deeper questions
 ✔ Simple ways to make these talks feel natural—not like an interrogation
 ✔ The types of stories and insights that can change how you see your family (and yourself)

🎯 OMG Moment: When an old person dies, a library burns. Every conversation you have now adds to the library you’ll carry forward.

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Want ideas to get started? Head to Patreon or Substack for a free list of sample questions and tips on how to make these conversations flow naturally.

Why This Episode Matters
As women in midlife, many of us are in the sandwich generation—caring for kids while also supporting aging parents. These conversations aren’t just about collecting stories; they’re about connection, gratitude, and legacy. Asking the right questions now ensures you carry their wisdom forward while also strengthening your bond in the present.

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