In this episode, I sit down with Lyndsay Seafoot, Human Resources Specialist and owner of Curbridge Consulting, for a practical conversation about one of the toughest dynamics on family farms: how to give performance feedback to family members.

Lindsay brings years of experience helping farm businesses create clarity around roles, job descriptions, and communication. Together, we explore why giving feedback to employees often feels easier than giving it to your own relatives, and how to change that.

We discuss how clear expectations, structured check-ins, and respectful communication can help farm families move from frustration to alignment. Lindsay also shares actionable tools for creating a more professional workplace culture without losing the warmth of family.

If you've ever struggled to balance accountability with compassion, or wondered how to have honest conversations that don't end in conflict, this episode will show you how feedback — when done right — can strengthen both your team and your relationships.

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About Our Guest

Lyndsay Seafoot is the founder of Curbridge, Stand Out Staff, and Directors Desk, all of which are companies focused on building expert-level HR for companies and organizations. Lyndsay started in entrepreneurship in her 20s but has been focused on building and growing her HR companies since 2020. Lyndsay has a CPHR designation, and with her 14 years of experience in the field, she has worked with companies across the prairies to develop strong HR foundations that allow companies to grow, hire better, retain more, and get some peace of mind when it comes to employees and managing them.

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Timestamps

0:00:33 Introduction and guest welcome; Lyndsay's HR expertise.
0:01:35 Defining frameworks and the need for HR foundations on farms.
0:03:00 Feedback challenges in farm families and key performance feedback questions.
0:04:34 Defining performance feedback: types (real-time vs. formal).
0:05:50 Communication issues and useful vs. unhelpful language for feedback.
0:10:11 When to give performance feedback and why it is often avoided in farm families.
0:14:33 How younger generations can seek effective feedback and build common ground.
0:18:33 Technology for farm procedure clarity; importance of face-to-face feedback.
0:20:15 How farm spouses/partners can encourage feedback initiation.
0:23:47 The cost of lacking feedback: retention, engagement, and the farm's reputation.
0:29:20 Leadership's role in scheduling and prioritizing feedback meetings.
0:32:47 Addressing the "not my job" mindset and fostering the right farm culture.
0:36:57 Accountability for improvement; holding family members to professional standards.
0:40:03 Key takeaways: respect, common ground, and choosing your response.