This episode is a two-for-one, and that’s because the podcast recently hit its 10-year anniversary and passed one billion downloads. To celebrate, I’ve curated some of the best of the best—some of my favorites—from more than 700 episodes over the last decade. I could not be more excited. The episode features segments from episode #355 "Greg McKeown — How to Master Essentialism" and episode #536 "Diana Chapman — How to Get Unstuck, Do “The Work,” Take Radical Responsibility, and Reduce Drama in Your Life."

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Timestamps:

[00:00 ] Start

[05:26 ] Notes about this supercombo format.

[06:28 ] Enter Greg McKeown.

[06:49 ] What is non-essential?

[07:46 ] Overcoming the planning fallacy.

[13:30 ] The problem with taking ownership of someone else’s problems.

[15:44 ] How to avoid committing to the unsustainable.

[21:26 ] Three rules.

[25:28 ] The personal quarterly offsite.

[33:05 ] Enter Diana Chapman.

[33:22 ] A transformative gift.

[36:56 ] The Drama Triangle.

[43:36 ] The whole-body yes (or no) and how it can serve us.

[46:06 ] Diana guides an experience to help pay better attention to our whole-body yes (or no).

[54:36 ] Observations made during the exercise and how Diana recommends using this inventory.

[1:01:39 ] Fostering playfulness for those who mute their desire to celebrate.

[1:08:28 ] Diana’s “black belt in practicing candor.”

[1:09:37 ] Diana’s thoughts on loving pressure and how to bring it into a relationship.

[1:13:24 ] Applying loving pressure to people you don’t know well.

[1:15:08 ] Diana’s guidance on introspection leading to perspective shifts; using Byron Katie’s “turnarounds.”

[1:17:48 ] Diana guides me through a turnaround.

[1:23:58 ] A turnaround’s purpose is to identify and embrace alternatives, not invalidate the inspected belief.

[1:29:06 ] The importance of introducing the somatic into the process; suggestions for difficulty with this step.

[1:31:47 ] The role of the witness in this process.

[1:33:54 ] Walking the line.

[1:35:40 ] Welcoming the opportunity to learn from the experience, even if it’s not preferred.

[1:37:35 ] Alternative tools for dysregulation in the moment.

[1:39:31 ] Risks Diana and her husband Matt took to keep their relationship vital; who initiated the first difficult conversation.

[1:45:11 ] How Diana figured out who she needed to be during this time.

[1:47:11 ] Navigating decision points together as a couple.

[1:49:42 ] Examples of commitments from The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership.

[1:53:22 ] The Mind Jogger app and how Diana uses it with the commitments.

[1:55:55 ] Assessing self-awareness in hiring interviews applied to non-job situations.

[1:57:53 ] Books most gifted.

[1:59:35 ] Parting thoughts.

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