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79: Healing From Betrayal Trauma: One Couple's Story of Safety, Stability, and Grieving Together

79: Healing From Betrayal Trauma: One Couple's Story of Safety, Stability, and Grieving Together

Update: 2025-12-11
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What does real healing look like after betrayal?This week Chance and Crystal join Luke for an honest conversation about boundaries, nervous system healing, resentment, parts work, and rebuilding safety after years of secrecy.

Learn how Phase One stabilizes the relationship and how Phase Two transforms grief into connection.

Perfect for individuals and couples seeking guidance, clarity, and hope.

Chapters

01:24 Meet Chance and Crystal

02:07 Chance and Crystal’s Personal Story

07:01 The Importance of Self-Care and Boundaries

21:12 Navigating Resentment

24:05 Establishing Boundaries and Creating Safety

27:21 Safety and Stability

28:18 Grieving Together

31:56 Navigating Shared Grief and Vulnerability

38:18 The Importance of Individual Healing

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79: Healing From Betrayal Trauma: One Couple's Story of Safety, Stability, and Grieving Together

79: Healing From Betrayal Trauma: One Couple's Story of Safety, Stability, and Grieving Together

Luke Gordon with Choose Recovery Services