On dating apps, we may become easier to meet, but we are not any easier to love.

What determines which profiles we see?

What type of profiles get more likes?

How to do you decide who to match and who to date?

How we can stay safe in dating?

And do people find true love there and how?

The perfect person does not exist. It is the relationship you create that makes them perfect.

Timestamps:

[02:30 ] Story of a fake popular girl

[03:20 ] You are actually scored on dating apps

[05:44 ] Give people a chance and also give yourself a chance

[07:30 ] $40,000 for one inch in height

[08:53 ] Say yes maybe

[10:02 ] Admit, you don’t know what you want

[13:25 ] More is less

[14:10 ] Dating apps or slot machines?

[16:10 ] How to improve your profile and communication

[24:38 ] Meet in real life ASAP

[27:20 ] Dating apps are more dangerous than we think and how to cope

[35:45 ] You’re whole and may you find the love of your life

Contact:

Email: sijiashen1998@gmail.com

Resources:

I Found Out My Secret Internal Tinder Rating And Now I Wish I Hadn’t

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Dating App Revenue and Usage Statistics (2023)

https://www.businessofapps.com/data/dating-app-market/#:~:text=Usage 

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Online love & infidelity. We're in the game, what are the rules? | Michelle Drouin | TEDxNaperville: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gQGjAp4GXU4

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