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87: I’m losing interest in my fiancée. Should she make more effort?

87: I’m losing interest in my fiancée. Should she make more effort?

Update: 2025-11-04

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Come and see us live on 25th November in Manchester with special guest Lanre Bakare, author of We Were There! Tickets are available now from Contact Theatre.

Inspired by a famous pop psychology quiz, Moya and Ash tackle a quiz about the culture that shaped them, from celebrity crushes to memorable quotes. Plus: advice for a young fiancé who’s losing interest in his partner.

Send us your dilemmas: ifispeak@novaramedia.com

Music by Matt Huxley.

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87: I’m losing interest in my fiancée. Should she make more effort?

87: I’m losing interest in my fiancée. Should she make more effort?

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