#90: Signs He May Be Acting Out
Update: 2025-03-14
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In this episode, we are talking about signs that he may be acting out. I have a lot of women that wonder (post discovery) - how will I know if he is acting out? What if I miss the signs? This episode is for you - AND - we have one bit of caution: we are NOT trying to insert unnecessary doubt into your mind. What we share here are potential indicators. A collection of things that we have seen as red flags prior to confirmation of his acting out. In addition, you want to look at these as a whole.
Okay, here we go - signs he may be acting out:
1 - A man that is only motivated by her and not motivated by himself.
2 - Insisting he will never act out again.
3 - Hiding - not engaging in conversations, evading, avoiding.
4 - Acting In increasing.
5 - Pressuring her to have sex with him.
6 - No interest in her in totality (not just disinterest in sex).
7 - Him straddling the fence / lukewarm.
8 - Lack of wholistic integrity.
9 - Talking about going back to normal.
10 - Reconnecting to your intuition - if you sense something I off, something I off. It may not mean he has relapsed but it does mean something is off.
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