Why do so many women feel a powerful craving for surrender in the bedroom but hold themselves back?

How do modern ideals shape our desires and fears in intimate dynamics?

In this episode, I dive deep into the often taboo topic of domination and submission in sexuality, exploring how contrary to a common opinion, these dynamics can lead to profound bliss, healing, and self-intimacy. I talk about the conflict many women feel when considering the desire for surrender, the pressures of modern feminist ideals, and the misconceptions around submission.

This episode reveals how true domination and submission transcend stereotypes through insightful examples and wisdom from experts like Kasia Urbaniak, offering a transformative way for women to connect deeply with their own desires.

In this episode:

• The taboo and craving for surrender in the bedroom: why so many women desire it yet hesitate. How feminist ideals can create inner conflict.


• Breaking down stereotypes and misconceptions.


• The importance of safety and trust in dominant-submissive dynamics.


• How submission invites profound intimacy and self-connection for women.


• The difference between toxic power dynamics and consensual, healing experiences.


• Dominant's focus outward and submissive's focus inward.


• Recognizing dominance and submission beyond the bedroom.


• Kasia Urbaniak's perspectives on attention and healthy submission.


• Introducing different sexual personality types from Miss. Jaiya.

Let’s connect!

Come join me and like-minded women in my FREE women-only, sex-positive community – Pleasure Rebels Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/plsrebels Follow and reach out on IG: https://www.instagram.com/erikaalsborn

Links and resources:

Honey pot link: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/602aaf6ff6b5473d9134edfc

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Kasia’s Urbaniak book: https://www.amazon.com/Unbound-Womans-Guide-Kasia-Urbaniak/dp/0593084519