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97. Why Trauma Dumping Happens And How To Stop It When You Really Like Someone

97. Why Trauma Dumping Happens And How To Stop It When You Really Like Someone

Update: 2025-12-10
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Have you ever walked away from a conversation thinking… why did I say all of that?
In this episode we talk about why trauma dumping happens, why insecure attachment makes us overshare too fast, and what you can do to slow it down so you feel more grounded, confident, and connected in your relationships.

You might want to listen if:
 • You overshare when you feel anxious or want someone to like you
 • You crash into a shame spiral after being vulnerable
 • You mistake urgency for intimacy
 • You struggle to regulate before you communicate
 • You want to understand the real attachment based reason trauma dumping happens


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DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from ...

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97. Why Trauma Dumping Happens And How To Stop It When You Really Like Someone

97. Why Trauma Dumping Happens And How To Stop It When You Really Like Someone

Jennifer Noble, PCC | Relationship Coach, TEDx Speaker, & Best Selling Author