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A Houstonian’s Journey from Michigan to South Africa, Fatherhood Insights, & More with Miah Collins

A Houstonian’s Journey from Michigan to South Africa, Fatherhood Insights, & More with Miah Collins

Update: 2024-02-22
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In episode #27, we visit with Miah who shares his unique upbringing, starting in Michigan and moving to Durban, South Africa, at the age of five. Through Miah’s story, we learn that fatherhood is a journey of continuous learning and growth. He reminds us that while we may not always meet our lofty parenting goals, it's the daily interactions and the environment we create for our children that truly define our success as dads. 

 00:01:19 - Miah's Background and Journey
 00:02:24 - Miah's Early Memories of Moving to South Africa
 00:03:43 - Discussing Michigan Roots and Family Connections
 00:05:31 - Miah's Childhood Transition to South Africa
 00:07:01 - Parental Influence and Framing Challenges as Adventures
 00:07:34 - The Role of Miah's Father in His Upbringing
 00:08:08 - Early Memories in South Africa and Family Dynamics
 00:09:12 - Cultural Experiences and Family Adventures
 00:11:19 - Learning About Father's Past During a Sermon
 00:12:05 - The Importance of Communication Between Father and Son
 00:13:19 - Miah Reflects on His Father's Approach to Parenting
 00:15:05 - Challenges of Fatherhood and Time Management
 00:16:16 - Family Traditions and Involving Kids in Decision Making
 00:17:31 - Establishing Family Rules and Boundaries
 00:18:49 - Intentionality in Parenting and Handling Sensitive Topics
 00:20:37 – Miah’s Approach to Discussing Technology and Freedom with Kids
 00:22:15 - Miah's Take on Family Traditions and Creating a Family Identity
 00:24:37 - The Value of Capturing Family Moments and Decision-Making Tools
 00:25:07 - Miah's Desire for More Guidance from His Father
 00:26:19 - The Significance of Small Parenting Moments
 00:29:37 - The Balance of Independence and Guidance in Parenting
 00:32:17 - The Influence of Miah's Grandfather on Family Traditions
 00:34:39 - The Challenge of Balancing Parental Expectations and Reality
 00:36:05 - Teaching Kids About Family Values and Responsibilities
 00:37:11 - Establishing and Explaining Family Rules to Children
 00:38:13 - The Importance of Being Intentional with Children
 00:39:53 - Creating a Safe Space for Open Communication with Kids
 00:41:19 - The Impact of Miah's Wife's Profession on Parenting
 00:42:53 - Discussing Sensitive Topics and Empowering Children
 00:44:43 - The Importance of Ongoing Conversations About Difficult Topics
 00:48:33 - The Importance of Addressing Taboo Topics with Children
 00:49:52 - The Approach to Discussing Body Autonomy and Boundaries
 00:51:09 - The Gradual Process of Discussing Sensitive Topics with Kids

 

 

 

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Durban, South Africa

Youth for Christ

Apartheid, South Africa

 

 

 

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OTHER EPISODES YOU’LL ENJOY

 

01: Dads, Dogs, and, Parenting with Lamar Smith

02: Texas Football, Greatest Generation, and More with Geoff King

03: Arkansas, Africa, and Father Memories on the Farm with Todd Brogdon

04: Laughter, Parenting Three Girls, and Our True North with Steve Pulley

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A Houstonian’s Journey from Michigan to South Africa, Fatherhood Insights, & More with Miah Collins

A Houstonian’s Journey from Michigan to South Africa, Fatherhood Insights, & More with Miah Collins

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