Happiness is found through humility.  A heart filled with pride cannot be a heart filled with joy.  Self gratification and self service never lead to true joy, but rather service leads to joy.  In a world focused on self-care, the value of serving others and valuing others as more important than ourselves is easily overlooked

Read Philippians 2:1-11 once again, NCV version:

“Does your life in Christ give you strength? Does his love comfort you? Do we share together in the spirit? Do you have mercy and kindness?  If so, make me very happy by having the same thoughts, sharing the same love, and having one mind and purpose.  When you do things, do not let selfishness or pride be your guide. Instead, be humble and give more honor to others than to yourselves.  Do not be interested only in your own life, but be interested in the lives of others.

 In your lives you must think and act like Christ Jesus