Elle and Valentine are friends and partners in life and the adult industry! We take your questions about dating, self care, sex and work. Thank you for a great four years talking sex and season 5 will return in the spring.

1:00 Guest IG @ xValentine_vonbettieX

5:00 find her Casa Diablo now!

7:00 dating another SW has baseline perks

10:00 dating issues for SWs

14:00 the work can be “bad” for some people’s health

16:00 “Concussion” movie 

19:00 Condomania.com - - code THEYTALKSEX for 15% off first order

22:00 tips on building your SW website

24:00 tips for long term pros

36:00 tips for slow seasons 

40:00 GetTheLayer.com - code ELLE for 10% off

42:00 how to balance work and life with sleep?

50:00 youthism and SW 

55:00 how to ask for STI testing/results

59:00 our sexualities are different 

1:03:00 travel is a perk

1:06:00 oral sex tips for vulvas

Our guest can be found at DarlingValentine.me

Your host can be found at ElleStanger.com

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