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Are We All Lying About Money? (with the financial feminist, Tori Dunlap)

Are We All Lying About Money? (with the financial feminist, Tori Dunlap)

Update: 2025-11-18
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Tori Dunlap is back on The Real Stuff! đź’¸


I asked my audience on Instagram to answer some of the most taboo money questions, like whether it’s rude to ask what someone’s house costs, if couples should split expenses 50/50, and how people really feel about money in relationships. If you haven’t listened to my first episode with Tori yet, go check it out at the link below! This time, we’re taking the conversation even deeper. 


In this conversation, Tori and I go through your replies one by one, breaking down the psychology behind money, greed, success, and why women in particular are taught to feel guilt or shame around wanting wealth. We also talk about financial privilege, debt, and what an equitable partnership looks like when incomes don’t match.


Money isn’t moral or immoral — it’s a tool. And as Tori says, money means options. Listen now for a financial expert’s take on the most taboo money-related questions.


Watch our previous episode with Tori here: https://youtu.be/1zqDOt0sKPY?si=ZwAEe3CrzNe47KHZ


Follow Tori on Instagram: @herfirst100k


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Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX 


To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 


I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 


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Are We All Lying About Money? (with the financial feminist, Tori Dunlap)

Are We All Lying About Money? (with the financial feminist, Tori Dunlap)