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Avoidant, Anxious, or Secure? What are attachment styles and how does our past shape them?

Avoidant, Anxious, or Secure? What are attachment styles and how does our past shape them?

Update: 2025-06-22
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Many people misunderstand their attachment style, overidentify with labels, or confuse trauma responses with personality traits. Today we break down secure and insecure attachment, discuss how anxious and avoidant dynamics form, and look at how emotional abuse and trauma erode self-trust. Many highly sensitive people (HSPs) often internalize critical voices and lose their sense of emotional safety. With radical honesty, self-awareness, boundaries, and emotional maturity, we can rebuild secure attachment—starting with our relationship to ourselves.


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Avoidant, Anxious, or Secure? What are attachment styles and how does our past shape them?

Avoidant, Anxious, or Secure? What are attachment styles and how does our past shape them?

Nikki Eisenhauer