it’s the spice of life.

— (1:25 ) Frustration is the aesthetic of each center

— (6:10 ) Frustration as the basis of human suffering and expression of personality 

— (7:56 ) Bermuda Overlays and frustration as personalized flavor / rejection as the elemental substrate of each center

— (14:25 ) Frustration doesn’t give up on their needs but unwilling to work with how to get its needs met / the knot of not having

— (16:58 ) Rejection cut off vs frustration in relationships

— (24:13 ) Everyone’s shitting on the thing they most want

— (31:57 ) Rejection and attachment both have a self-erasing quality / ‘attachment as exposition, frustration as rising action, rejection as conclusion’

— (39:27 ) The social engagement of the world is low on frustration / you’re not a person if you don’t hate something

— (42:16 ) 2 vs 4 love is not the same / frustration is essential to seeing someone’s personhood

— (52:57 ) Attachment-rejection vs attachment-frustration strategies

— (55:13 ) To be aesthetic means prioritizing your preferences over maintaining connection / 4 seeing people as aesthetic holograms

— (1:00:50 ) Universal bread people attraction vs personal specific attraction

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